Sexology 101

Sexy New Year’s Resolutions for Ladies in 2017

It’s time once again to make those New Year’s resolutions!  Why stick to boring resolutions when you can go with some sexier ones? Here’s how to make sure you’ll have hotter, better sex in 2017!

Grab a pad of paper and create your sexual bucket list for the next 12 months. Do it by yourself or with your partner to open up to each other about your fantasies, wants and needs.

Set reasonable sex goals. While you want to push your boundaries, you wouldn’t want to purposely make yourself uncomfortable just to make yourself feel like a rejuvenated sex-kitten.

Curious what you should put on your list? Check out these sexual goals you’re sure to enjoy this year.

Experiment with toys. If you’ve never tried a sex toy before, you owe it to yourself to try start experimenting immediately. There are tons of different toys out there for men and women that can be used for a shared experience or for solo fun.

Kiss more. Have you gotten so into the routine of diving straight into sex that your lips have been forgotten? If that’s the case, your new year definitely needs more kisses. Have make out sessions with your lover as if you were both teenagers again and practice long, passionate kisses.

More foreplay. If you’ve stopped kissing before sex, then your foreplay has probably taken a nosedive, too. Work foreplay back into your sexual buffer and discover new ways to please your each other.

Make your fantasies a reality. Ever thought about getting frisky in a cab, elevator, or restaurant bathroom? Ever wanted to make your own homemade video? Ever fantasized about getting it on with a stranger? Even if you’re in a relationship, you can still make these fantasies a reality by the use of role-play.

Find your G-spot. Ever wonder what this elusive G-spot thrill zone is all about? Does it even exist? This year, find out if you fancy G-spot stimulation by experimenting with your fingers, G-spot stimulator sex toys or find it the old fashioned way with your partner’s penis. (Check out our blog post for more tips on finding your G-spot.)

Explore your vagina. Many women worry that their V is unattractive, so they avoid checking it out for themselves. Using a handheld mirror, explore your vagina and get to know her a little better.

Have more sex. Have you been with your partner for some time now, and find your sex is dwindling? Up the ante this year by setting attainable sex goals for having love sessions X many times a week.

Start doing Kegels. Kegel exercises are not only great for keeping your vagina tight and fabulous, but they also strengthen your control over your bladder and bowels. (Check out our blog post for more information.)

Have a fashion show. Sick of seeing your lingerie collection collecting dust in the closet? This year, try putting on a sexy fashion show for your partner and have him or her be your personal photographer. Or better yet, surprise your partner with some new sexy lingerie!

Talk dirty. If you find yourself a little on the shy side when it comes to dirty talk, try coaxing yourself out with a glass of wine beforehand. Many women also find it beneficial to have her man blindfolded when she starts her dirty monologue.

Engage in slow, relaxing, lazy sex. This year, try incorporating lazy, Sunday morning sex into your routine. Try this while spooning, as it offers the least amount of effort. You’ll find that it can be just as fulfilling as your usual rough play.

Use the next 12 months to try new things and incorporate fun, scandalous items into your sexual routine. Even if your sex life is perfectly lively, there’s never any harm in making a fabulous bucket list to aspire to!