Contrary to what many believe, getting a little kinkier doesn’t have to involve anything too bizarre. Today we’re sharing seven sex tips to try if you want to get a little more adventurous in the bedroom in 2019.
Go beyond the binary.
If there is something you have always held back from exploring or expressing, now is the time to begin thinking about giving yourself permission. What does your body really want that people ‘like you’ aren’t ‘supposed’ to do? Explore that, enjoy the thrill of the taboo and know the future is fluid.
Tap into your secret sexual fantasies.
Before adding variety, ask yourself what you currently find lacking and what you think might make it more exciting. This could mean incorporating new toys, spanking, role-playing, sex parties, swinging, dirty talk, sexting, talking about your sexual fantasies, having sex in different locations, trying new positions, or attending a sex-specific class together.
One of our Favorite Sex Tips: Stop yourselves from orgasming.
This is one of those sex tips that doesn’t sound immediately enticing, but there are some really good reasons to take orgasm off the table temporarily. It forces the two of you to get creative and see how much pleasure you can experience throughout your interaction, instead of just focusing on the end.
Focus on breathing.
Everyone needs to breathe more during sex. Start by taking a few deep breaths while you are getting aroused and notice what happens.
Bring hot oil into the mix.
There’s nothing like the warmth of a hot oil massage, especially when you add a blindfold to the mix to build the anticipation. The blindfold lends the oil drops an added edge of mystery, not knowing when or where the next drop will land.
Masturbate more often — and together.
Another one of our favorite sex tips is to consider including your partner when you masturbate. Self-pleasure can help you reconnect and learn your own body and what you like. Masturbation is also a safe place to explore new sex toys. And lube is a great addition for both self-lubricating and non-self-lubricating body parts.
Imagine you’re single and about to have sex with someone new for the first time.
This one of our sex tips is not about being with another person per se, it’s about revisiting what you like sexually and erasing any negative sexual patterns you and your partner may have developed over time. So imagine starting all over again and think about what you would want a new partner to know about what you like and then share that with your partner.
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