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11 Tips to Make Sex Last Longer Tips, tricks and toys!

Sometimes a quickie is fine, but more often, we would like sex to last a bit longer. If you and your partner want to make sex last longer, try out some of our top 11 tips.

Have him learn to be LESS aroused.

Some men become so aroused that they can’t stop ejaculation, and in some cases, it may happen earlier than you’d like. Have him learn to use lesser levels of arousal to his advantage.

Give a cock ring a try.

Cock rings are made of silicone, metal, or other materials, and they work by constraining the blood flow at the base of the shaft of the penis. This can help maintain stronger, harder erections, and some men find that these devices can help them last longer.

Practice mindfulness to make sex last longer.

Try focusing on your breathing and mindfulness to help delay ejaculation. And don’t just do that in the bedroom; practicing daily can also help improve sexual performance.

Practice more.

For some couples, the only problem is a lack of conditioning. Just as you go to the gym to get stronger, more sex will condition your body to last longer.

Focus on your partner.

If the male partner is facing an imminent orgasm, he can simply give it a rest and take a break to pleasure his partner. This will “reset” your progress toward ejaculation, allowing you to last longer.

Use toys together as a couple to make sex last longer.

If you’re playing together and you both enjoy it, introducing toys into your bedroom activities can be a great idea. For one thing, it can add some variety and it can be a lot of fun. For another, it can be a good tool for helping you both experience pleasure.

Masturbate before having sex.

This relates to the first point, keeping the male partner slightly less aroused. If he has recently ejaculated, it will take longer for him to orgasm a second time. To make sex last longer, have him masturbate an hour or two before your sexual activity.

Use the refractory period.

The length of the refractory period differs between men, but depending on how long yours is, you might not need to stop after a single round. Have sex, ejaculate, and then move onto something else for a few minutes until you feel ready again.

Try new things.

If you’ve been with the same partner for a long time, familiar sex positions can lead you to expect orgasm, which will make it happen sooner. Trying new positions and new activities can distract him a bit, which will help him last longer.

Try edging to make sex last longer.

When the male partner is about to ejaculate, stop what you’re doing and wait a minute or two before resuming. If you train your partner’s body to reach the edge of orgasm and then suppress it, he will learn to spend more time close to ejaculating but without actually doing it.

Use thicker condoms.

Many men dislike condoms because they reduce sensation, but this isn’t always a bad thing. If you have trouble lasting long enough, that reduced sensation can help you lengthen the session.

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Spice Things Up In The Bedroom With Our Top 6 Tips Don't deal with a boring love life!

So, things haven’t been all that great in the bedroom lately and, in fact, it has become rather routine. Being intimate has become vanilla and boring. But your love story isn’t over, it just needs to be set on a different course. Here are our 6 top tips to help spice things up in the bedroom.

Change location to spice things up in the bedroom.

If you restrict lovemaking to just the bedroom, it’s time to explore all the other areas of the house. Try the kitchen counter, corridor, by the main door, on the balcony, the dining table, the shower, the couch, or even the sink. The possibilities are endless, so do it on every available surface in your house. Not knowing where you’re doing it next will be exciting and probably send your sex lives through the roof.

Take the lead to spice things up in the bedroom.

Although many people prefer being the dominant one, they also like being told what to do sometimes. Take the lead, undress your partner and cater to his or her needs first. Tell your partner what you want and how you want it. This trading of places has proven quite successful in bringing back the heat. Tell your partner to sit down and hush up, because you’re in control now.

Send some sexy text messages.

Never stop flirting with your significant other even if the two of you are together. When it comes to being intimate, the stimulation of the mind is a great component. Send your partner a risqué text – so risqué that if your mother sees it, she’ll pass out. Tell your partner how you can’t wait for them to get home and show them what they’ve been missing. Get as descriptive as possible, by the time he or she gets home, it’s game on!

Lingerie is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom.

Buy some sexy lingerie, some your partner has never seen before. Try some satin or lace – a sultry black and red usually does the trick, as does white. White is considered a sign of purity, but what is running through your partner’s mind as he looks at you in it is nothing close to pure.

Kama sutra it.

To spice things up in the bedroom, get yourself a Kama sutra book and explore new positions that you didn’t know existed. You and your partner can take this time to discover your levels of experimentation. If a position looks interesting, try it and have fun with it. Keep track of which ones you’ve tried to ensure that you aren’t stuck with missionary forever.

Toys are always fun.

Adult toys, although advertised for self-pleasure, can be used with a partner. Adding a toy in the bedroom can really spice things up. Ask your partner if he or she is willing to bring in a little vibrating friend to the game and just to make them more confident, ask your partner to use the toy on you. Give your partner all the power to control the activity. In most cases, he or she will be more than glad to ‘play’ with you. Once more comfortable, you can explore more intense toys.

These are just a few pointers to help you spice things up in the bedroom. If you need help buying sex toys or other enhancers for men and women, our expert staff is here to help!

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Never Do These 8 Things After Having Sex! Tips to Keep Your Body Healthy!

Right after having sex, you’re probably luxuriating in the post-coital flood of hormones that make you feel sleepy. But even if you’re feeling tired, there are several things you should be doing – and not doing – right after sex to help keep your body as healthy as possible.

Don’t forget to use the bathroom after having sex.

It might not feel super sexy to immediately step away from your partner to use the bathroom but emptying your bladder post-sex is actually pretty important because sexual activity can push bacteria up the urethra, which can lead to bladder infections or urinary tract infections. Using the bathroom flushes out the area, lowering the risk of infection.

Avoid bathing in super-hot water.

Taking a bath or a shower after sex is fine, but you might want to skip a post-sex soak in the hot tub, especially if you have a vagina. Excessive water exposure can elevate your risk of contracting an infection.

Don’t use perfumed or scented products on your genital area after having sex.

While there’s no shortage of scented soaps, gels, washes, lotions, and other products marketed for genital health, these products can irritate internal and external skin and should be avoided immediately after having sex, especially for those with a vagina.

Don’t ever douche.

Even though douching after having sex is often marketed as a safe and healthy way to prevent pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections, douching alters your normal vaginal flora and will increase your risk of UTIs, yeast infections, and bacterial vaginosis, which is a condition caused by vaginal inflammation when there is an overgrowth of bacteria.

Don’t put your sex toys away without thoroughly cleaning them.

Certain sex toys need to be cleaned differently than others. Just as you should clean your body after sex, you should clean any sex toys you used because they are usually synthetic and can hold bacteria. Keep them clean and they will not increase the risk of infection. Paying attention to the toy’s specific directions for keeping it clean is crucial.

Don’t put on any tight-fitting clothing or lingerie immediately after sex.

Donning anything tight-fitting before or during sex is fine. But wearing them immediately after sex isn’t the best idea because there is an excess of bodily fluids and the friction spreads the bacteria around. It’s a good idea to allow free drainage and air to allow the body to naturally cleanse itself. Either wear nothing or loose clothing.

Don’t wait until after sex to speak to your partner about their sexual health.

Regularly being tested for STIs is a crucial part of sexual health, but you shouldn’t wait until after having sex to have open and honest communication with your partner about any concerns you might have. Talking about STI testing is a good idea, so if you get tested and have the results, then it is easy to ask that they be tested.

Don’t immediately grab your phone or the TV remote.

Even if you’re not planning on sticking around or need to leave shortly after sex, you might want to avoid immediately grabbing your phone or turning on the TV after having sex. The moments after sex can be a great way to bond with your partner. Scrolling through social media or watching TV limits your chances of enjoying those post-coital feelings of bliss, so savor them while you can.

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Want To Get Kinkier In 2019? We Have 7 Sex Tips! Our favorite sex tips for a sexy New Year!

Contrary to what many believe, getting a little kinkier doesn’t have to involve anything too bizarre. Today we’re sharing seven sex tips to try if you want to get a little more adventurous in the bedroom in 2019.

Go beyond the binary.

If there is something you have always held back from exploring or expressing, now is the time to begin thinking about giving yourself permission. What does your body really want that people ‘like you’ aren’t ‘supposed’ to do? Explore that, enjoy the thrill of the taboo and know the future is fluid.

Tap into your secret sexual fantasies.

Before adding variety, ask yourself what you currently find lacking and what you think might make it more exciting. This could mean incorporating new toys, spanking, role-playing, sex parties, swinging, dirty talk, sexting, talking about your sexual fantasies, having sex in different locations, trying new positions, or attending a sex-specific class together.

One of our Favorite Sex Tips: Stop yourselves from orgasming. 

This is one of those sex tips that doesn’t sound immediately enticing, but there are some really good reasons to take orgasm off the table temporarily. It forces the two of you to get creative and see how much pleasure you can experience throughout your interaction, instead of just focusing on the end.

Focus on breathing.

Everyone needs to breathe more during sex. Start by taking a few deep breaths while you are getting aroused and notice what happens.

Bring hot oil into the mix.

There’s nothing like the warmth of a hot oil massage, especially when you add a blindfold to the mix to build the anticipation. The blindfold lends the oil drops an added edge of mystery, not knowing when or where the next drop will land.

Masturbate more often — and together.

Another one of our favorite sex tips is to consider including your partner when you masturbate. Self-pleasure can help you reconnect and learn your own body and what you like. Masturbation is also a safe place to explore new sex toys. And lube is a great addition for both self-lubricating and non-self-lubricating body parts.

Imagine you’re single and about to have sex with someone new for the first time.

This one of our sex tips is not about being with another person per se, it’s about revisiting what you like sexually and erasing any negative sexual patterns you and your partner may have developed over time. So imagine starting all over again and think about what you would want a new partner to know about what you like and then share that with your partner.

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5 Sexy Christmas Gifts That Are Perfect For Both You and Your Partner

There’s no better way to spice up your holiday traditions than by trying new ones. Have you and your partner ventured into something other than the typical P-in-V sex yet? If not, we have some ideas for you; in fact, we have 5 sexy Christmas gifts that will benefit both of you.

Strap-On

Everyone—male or female, gay or straight—can enjoy strap-on sex. Comfortable to wear and ultra-sexy, a harness allows for hands-free dildo fun.

If comfort is your main concern, rest assured that today’s harnesses are designed with ultimate comfort in mind. Many of our harnesses feature velvety soft inner linings and multiple adjustable straps, so your strap-on can truly be an extension of you. Just be sure to review minimum and maximum sizing for the best possible fit.

We-Vibe Sync Couples Vibrator

Sync is one of the best sexy Christmas gifts you can buy! It’s designed to be enjoyed with a partner during sex. She gets powerful stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot and together, you both share the vibe. Touch, tease and turn each other on from anywhere. Download the free We-Connect app and play together, even when you’re apart.

Our Weekend in Bed Kit Contains Many Sexy Christmas Gifts

For couples interested in getting into some consensual bondage play, this kit has all of the things you need to get started. Whether you spend the holidays at home or in another romantic location, you and your lover can always spend it in bed with these sexy Christmas gifts! Make that time together more exciting and passionate with our Weekend in Bed Game Kit. Includes: 2 Adult Card Games, Satin Carry Bag, Paddle, Feather, Blindfold, Flogger, and Candle.

Sex Sling

A sex sling helps angle your hips to target your G-spot during sex. Place over your door for an instant sex sling. Includes a padded seat that pivots for access at any angle. Foot straps and hand grips provide ultimate leverage.

Liberator Large Triangle Sex Cushion

This, my friends, is a sex cushion. It’s portable, washable, and can be stored beneath the bed or in your closet. It’s amazing for propping up your body while experimenting with different positions for maximum impact. You’ll be amazed at what a difference lifting up your booty makes.

Need Help Shopping for Sexy Christmas Gifts?

This holiday season, you and your partner can give the gift of lasting intimacy by gifting one (or more) of these sexy Christmas gifts to each other. Don’t underestimate the importance of investing in your sex life, either – the chemical bonds you build up with your partner will last much longer than the holidays and I can’t think of anything more merry and bright.

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Why You Should Be Very Careful About Buying Sex Toys From Big Online Retailers Make Sure You Get the Pleasure You Want!

There are many online retailers where you can shop when buying sex toys. Today, we’re using Amazon as an example.

Amazon has more than a million brands, hundreds of millions of products and more than five million marketplace sellers. There is no data available regarding how many of those products are sex toys, but the site’s “sexual wellness” is full of vibrators, dildos, and other sex toys.

The problem is that even if you shop on Amazon after doing some research you might end up with a fake. This has to do with the way Amazon commingles listings from different sellers on the site – and the way it fulfills them.

The worst part is, these lower priced counterfeit goods can easily out-compete authentic, well-made sex toys on Amazon and at other retailers. To add to the confusion, Amazon is rife with fake reviews that further confuse consumers about what they’re getting.

Why So Many People Turn to Amazon When Buying Sex Toys

The appeal of shopping for sex toys on Amazon is twofold. One, as we’ve mentioned, is that there appear to be some good prices on toys that are in demand. The other is that Amazon is so mainstream that it may make people feel more comfortable about buying sex toys.

Buying a vibrator can be adventurous enough, so having a private retail experience you are comfortable with can make it easier to buy something that feels uncomfortable to buy.

How All This Cheap Stuff Hurts the Sex Toy Industry and Consumers

If you don’t know much about the sex toy industry, you may not know how much it’s changed over the past 10 years or so. Buying sex toys is becoming more mainstream and, as a result, consumers are no longer ashamed to demand high-quality, body-safe toys for their money.

The products being released today have more research behind them than ever. Companies are fine-tuning motors and shapes, but they are also elevating the entire experience for consumers who are buying sex toys.  They’re doing this by hiring sex educators, providing sex education and getting really involved at the consumer level.

Plus, consumers are getting smarter. We now know that some materials aren’t safe enough to put into our orifices. We know that sexual pleasure – including any devices used to achieve it – isn’t weird or shameful, it’s a part of being human. And we know that many companies out there have been stepping up and putting in the hard work to make beautiful, safe, well-designed pleasure products for people.

Don’t You Owe It To Yourself?

If you’re in the market, you owe it to yourself to get a product that’s made by a manufacturer who actually cares about your pleasure and your health, and one that will deliver the goods for years to come. They don’t come cheap, but they are worth your time and money.

After all, when you are buying sex toys you are essentially buying into the idea that you deserve pleasure. Don’t you want to make sure you actually get it?

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Why You Just Have to Buy Your BFF a Sex Toy for Christmas Who Know You Better Than Your Bestie?

Sure, lots of women own a sex toy but they’re not something you’d normally think of buying for a friend. Today we’re discussing why they make the perfect gift and why you should consider buying your bestie a sex toy for Christmas, even if he or she has a partner.

You Know Just About Everything About Each Other

Best friends share secrets, special moments and a history together and often know more about each other than even their partners know. Men are often surprised, and even shocked, when they realize that women really do tell each other literally everything.

You Share Everything

There’s nothing best friends won’t talk about so there’s no reason why they should be shy or coy about what gives them intimate pleasure – and they usually aren’t! If you have a close friend with whom you share everything, a sex toy could be the perfect gift for her, whether or not she currently has a romantic partner in her life.

Buying a Sex Toy for Christmas Really Shows You Care

We all love our best friends and want them to feel good, so a sex toy is a genuinely thoughtful gift that has the potential to make a real positive difference in your friend’s life.

You Have Similar Tastes

The great thing about women their best friend a sex toy for Christmas is that they already know each other so well they don’t have to guess what they might like. This will make it easier for you to buy your friend the right toy. You have similar tastes, so if you find a particular product appealing, your best friend is likely to enjoy it too.  Is she a fan of modern, sleek technology, or does she prefer all that is cute and feminine? Does she have a raunchy side or does she tend to be discreet or even a little coy? (Read: How to Choose a Vibrator)

It Can Be Fun to Give a Sex Toy for Christmas!

Part of the fun of giving your friend a vibrator, dildo, or other sex toys this Christmas will be the look on her face and the conversation and laughs you will share. So it might be fun to arrange a night in together with a nice meal and a bottle of wine so that you can exchange gifts and enjoy each other’s company, and some giggles.

Whatever the case, there is a huge range of sex toys available in today’s market, which is increasingly predicated around female tastes, and you will be able to find something for her.

Ready to buy your BFF a sex toy for Christmas? If you want help choosing the best sex toys, fetish toys or any other adult products, stop by the best adult store Tampa today to see our complete selection of adult toysadult apparel (including a wide variety of lingerie and dancewear), adult gamesadult furniture, and more!

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Wine Sheer Teddy

Wine Sheer Teddy is a elegant piece of lingerie. You will feel sexy as well as elegant in this outfit.

The front features sheer wine embellished material. The back is a sheer black thong.

Wine Sheer Teddy only comes in wine and black, and also one size fits most.

 

 

Lace Teddy

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Strappy Onesie

Strappy Onesie is one of the hottest items we have. You will have your partner drooling in this sexy outfit.

The top features a mesh, giving your partner a tease to what is to come. Strappy Onesie has garters and also comes with thigh highs.

This outfit comes in black, and is also one size fits most.

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Strappy 2PC

Strappy 2PC is a sexy 2PC bra and panty set. You will have your partner panting in this sultry outfit.

The bra and panty features mesh fabric, giving your partner just a little tease. Strappy 2PC has garters and also includes thigh highs.

Comes in one size fits most.