Why Sex Toys Are GREAT For Relationships! They're no longer taboo.

As society becomes more pleasure-positive, sex toys continue to make their way into bedrooms worldwide. Once, shady looking, poorly made objects that could only be found in shady places, they’ve come a long way. All you have to do is to walk into an adult store to realize how mainstream these products have become. But despite this, not everyone has invited sex toys into this their sex life. We need to change that. Here are some ways sex toys are great for relationships.

Sex toys lead to more communication. 

When you walk into a sex toy store, you have to talk about what you want to buy and why with your partner. If you’ve struggled in the past to communicate your sexual desires to your partner, being face-to-face with bed restraints or a butt plus that you want to try, the conversation finally gets started then and there.

Sex toys are great for relationships because they relieve the pressure.

If you suffer from performance concerns, you’re not alone. Men are just as worried about their ability to make a woman orgasm as women are anxious about being able to climax during sex. Introducing sex toys, particularly a couple’s sex toy like the We-Vibe Sync, into the bedroom will provide a level of confidence for both partners. This is especially the case for women who struggle to orgasm through intercourse alone.

Sex toys are great for relationships because they help intensify intimacy. 

When adding sex toys to your relationship, it releases further exploration into your sex life, which not only provides excitement but information about what both you and your partner enjoy sexually. And the more you learn about each other, the greater the intimacy between you. Intimacy, both inside and outside of the bedroom, is essential for a healthy and happy relationship.

Sex toys provide an entryway to other things. 

Everyone has sexual fantasies. Yes, everyone! Sex toys are a step toward fulfilling those fantasies because when you open your relationship to a toy, you’re opening up your mind. And once your mind starts wallowing in sex-positivity, you’ll find that you’ll both evolve sexually, and your relationship will be better for it.

Sex toys are great for relationships because they mean better sex. 

Sex toys, without a doubt, make for better sex, not just from a physical standpoint, but from an emotional standpoint as well. Whether you and your partner use toys that are specific for couples, or a vibrator that can be used solo, your sex life can only benefit from them.

Studies have confirmed that couples who have an awesome sex life are far more likely to have a happy relationship. Consider these reasons why sex toys are great for relationships, come visit us, and play away!!

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Sexology 101

7 Pleasurable Ways to Use Sex Lube If you've never use sex lube on your favorite vibrator, you're seriously missing out.

Lube is the unsung hero of sex. From easing uncomfortable rubbing to rescuing you when a condom gets dry, there’s no limit to what it can add to sex. And no, you do not need to be post-menopausal to use sex lube – it is for literally everyone. And there are tons of ways to use it!

While lubrication can be made from water, oil, petroleum, or silicone, water-based lube is usually your best bet. It’s safe to use with condoms, and it’s easily washed away. If you’re prone to yeast infections, use a water-based product made without glycerin. Read: How to Choose a Lubricant for Both Pleasure and Safety.

So here are 7 ways to use sex lube to your advantage.

Use it when you masturbate. 

Yes, even sex with yourself can be improved with lube. If you have dry hands, you don’t need to use a moisturizing lotion that could contain unwanted chemicals, especially inside you. Just apply a few drops to your finger before touching yourself for a smoother feel.

Use sex lube when you masturbate with a vibrator

Imagine the electrifying pulse of your favorite vibrator hitting all the right spots. Now imagine using that same toy to gently glide over your clitoris with the same power, but a totally different, more fluid sensation. A dab of lube on a vibrator is a total game-changer.  Read: How to Use a Vibrator for the First Time.

Use it during vaginal intercourse. 

There’s no wrong way to use sex lube during intercourse. You can apply it directly to your body, or to the penis or condom itself. Start with a dime-size dollop and work up from there.

Use sex lube inside the condom. 

If your partner is looking for more ways to increase feeling while being protected, add a little lube to elevate the sensitivity inside the latex. If you put a drop or two inside the condom before you unroll the it, you might unlock a world of feeling.

Use it during anal intercourse. 

While you might hit a limit during vaginal intercourse, that ceiling will be much higher with anal sex, because the anus does not create its own lubricant like a vagina does. So use sex lube freely – too much is never enough down there. Read: How to Have Anal Sex That Doesn’t Hurt.

Use it during a blow job. 

This might sound counterintuitive, but it’s true! Women often use spit, but it can be hard to muster up enough. A flavored lube provides enough wetness that your jaw won’t get as tired. Read: How to Give Him the Best Blowjob Ever.

Use it for a sexy massage. 

Since any good-quality lube is body-safe, why not try it during nonsexual foreplay? Using it for a sexy back massage can take things from relaxing to electrifying. Read: How to Give Your Woman a Massage That Will Leave Her Begging For More.

Ready to use sex lube for your next solo or partner session? If you want help choosing the best sex lube, fetish toys or any other adult products, stop by the best adult store Tampa today to see our complete selection of adult toysadult apparel (including a wide variety of lingerie and dancewear), adult gamesadult furniture, and more!

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Sexology 101

What Are The Most Common Sexual Fantasies? We're sharing our top 6!

In our daily lives, most of us aren’t walking around discussing our sexual fantasies and desires. But we asked some of our customers to share the fantasies they think about most often. Following is what we found.

Having A Threesome

Both singles and couples share sexual fantasies about having three people in the bedroom. A part of the attraction is the sensual overload, with so many different body parts all entwined. Many couples like the idea of a threesome to return some spark and excitement back into their sex lives.

Dominance And Submission

While men are usually more into dominating and women into being dominated, this isn’t always true. Fantasies of domination are about power, feeling like you are fully in control and that the other person will submit to your every desire. There are two super sexy things about submission. The first is the feeling that the sub has all of the attention of their dom, and the second is the feeling of relinquishing control. Read: Dom Sub: 6 Sexy Ideas.

Sexual Fantasies About Foot Play

Shoe and foot fantasies are quite common, mostly among men. These fantasies could include being genitally stimulated by a foot, being walked on or just visualizing different types of shoes to get aroused. The image of a foot in a particular type of shoe is very stimulating to some people.

For Straight People, Having Sex With Someone Of The Same Sex

When we have sexual fantasies about being intimate with someone of the same sex, we get to imagine what it would be like to be touched in ways that are both foreign and familiar and to break free from some of the gender assumptions that we normally enact.

Giving Your Partner Multiple Orgasms

For heterosexual men, the most consistent fantasy we hear is about having a partner who is truly a good time and is freely expressive and responsive to his touch. This fantasy stems from men often feeling like they need to convince their partners to have sex. It also helps a guy’s ego if he feels he is competent in bed. Read: How to Give Your Woman Multiple Orgasms.

Watching Your Partner Have Sex With Somebody Else

There’s something provocative and taboo about the fantasy of watching our partner have sex with someone else. Watching another’s hand touch our partner’s body or another’s mouth kiss our partner’s mouth reinforces our partner’s desirability while making a predictable attachment suddenly feel unpredictable.

What are your favorite sexual fantasies? If you want help choosing fetish toys or any other adult products, stop by the best adult store Tampa today to see our complete selection of adult toysadult apparel (including a wide variety of lingerie and dancewear), adult gamesadult furniture, and more!

Enjoy a glass of complimentary wine or beer while our experts help you shop.




Tips for Choosing Sexy Adult Halloween Costumes in Tampa Visit the best adult store in Tampa – but don’t wait too long – quantities are limited!

Many ladies want to look unique and beautiful and perhaps a little naughty for Halloween. And this can cause confusion when choosing sexy adult Halloween costumes in Tampa. A good practice to follow is to consider where you will be wearing your costume throughout the haunting Halloween season. This can provide some insight into what is sexy enough and what might be a little bit too sexy.

Work: Work is an especially sensitive place to dress sexy at any time, even during the Halloween season. You want to be tempting and fun but without showing too much skin or crossing a professional line, especially if you will be attending a Halloween office party of some kind, so keep this in mind when shopping for sexy adult Halloween costumes in Tampa. Try choosing something that is flattering on top but that remains modest at the bottom, or vice versa. That way there is never too much being exposed.

School: If you will be attending a high school Halloween party for your students (if you are a teacher) or child (if you are a parent), it may be important to keep it PG rated all the way around. This avoids awkward discussions with the boss or uncomfortable looks from your child’s friends, and allows you to stay fun and still a little on the spicy momma side!

Fun: If you will be partying with your friends for Halloween, the rules for your costumes are pretty much non-existent. Choose a sexy adult Halloween costume that you love, that makes you look hot and that you will feel comfortable wearing among friends and then let your freak flag fly!

Ready to embrace your wild side and get a sexy adult Halloween costume with all of the accessories? Visit the best adult store in Tampa – but don’t wait too long – quantities are limited! Come by today for the best selection.