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3 Sex Positions for Those Who Love to Give Be a giver!

Often, when brainstorming the perfect present for a loved one, the phrase “it’s the thought that counts” will come up. That saying definitely holds true if gift-giving is your love language. And it especially rings true in the bedroom. If you’re a giver, these prime sex positions involve an extra dose of care, attention, and thoughtfulness.

Gift-giving doesn’t always have to be a grand gesture. For a lot of gift givers and receivers, what’s important is the thought, time, and love that goes into the gift.

If your love language is gift-giving, you should brainstorm sex positions or moves the same way you would with any gift. Here are three sex positions that will simply keep on giving, no matter what the occasion is.


We suggest role-playing a spicy scenario, making a sexy video, venturing into bondage or giving a sensual massage. A hot way to incorporate massage is to adopt seated face-to-face sex positions.

One person sits on the other’s lap, with their legs curled behind their partner. Not only can your partner take time teasing all of your erogenous zones, but you also get to engage in some delicious eye contact and share in all of your partner’s reactions. Buy a massage candle and add some wax to your bedroom experience for an extra sensual touch.

The Draper

Have your partner sit on the edge of the bed and lay back with their legs draped down the edge. As you kneel between their legs, you are now in the perfect position to give fellatio or cunnilingus. You can change the pressure or intensity from this angle or bring a sex toy into the mix. Alternating between your mouth and a vibrator could be extra tantalizing for your partner. Or, if vibrating sex toys aren’t their thing, a butt plug or nipple clamps are sexy substitutes.

The Classic 69 Sex Positions

For some givers, giving can be as pleasurable as receiving and 69 is the perfect position for you to experience the joy of giving and receiving at the same time. Lay side-by-side with your partner with your face near their genitals and vice versa.

You can use your hands, lips, and tongue to stimulate each other. Don’t forget to play with the anus while you’re down there! If you and your partner want to get into anal sex, you have to remember that lube is key.

It’s undeniable that engaging in these three indulgent sex positions will have your partner excited and extra appreciative of your generosity, so go on and be a giver!

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Voyeurism Fetish: What You Need to Know When It's Okay and When It's Not

A voyeurism fetish is a desire to watch other people doing things, usually sexual in nature. It’s a thrill and it provides a jolt of excitement.

Truth be told, there’s a little bit of a voyeur in all of us. For a true voyeur, one who receives sexual pleasure from watching others, this interest crosses over from plain intrigue in the activities of others into fetish territory.

For instance, while someone gets sexual pleasure from leather, spanking, feet, etc., someone with a voyeurism fetish gets aroused by watching other people have sex.

What is a voyeurism fetish, and why does it turn people on so much?

The appeal of voyeurism varies from person to person. The most common theory is that people can gain sexual satisfaction in witnessing something taboo or something they’re not supposed to be seeing.

For example, watching a couple have sex through a hole in the wall might be enough to make a voyeur have an orgasm. For others, it’s about shame, most commonly known as a cuckolding fantasy. In this fetish, voyeurs enjoy watching their partner have sex with someone else while being told they are worthless or not allowed to also engage in the sexual act.

If you think you have a voyeurism fetish, don’t beat yourself up about it – it’s very common sexual fantasy. We are all excited by different things, and as long as you’re not harming yourself or anyone else, it’s totally fine.

When A Voyeurism Fetish Is Okay

If you’re sexually aroused by voyeurism, there are ways you can express these desires in a healthy, legal way. For instance, if you and your partner decide to bring another person into your bedroom so that you can be a bystander, that’s fine.

If you want to live out a cuckolding fantasy and be caged or tied up while your partner engages in sexual activity with someone else, that’s okay. If you want to watch from another room and your partner and the other person you’ve brought into the scene are aware and okay with this situation, you’re also in the clear.

Voyeurism is acceptable as long as everyone involved is consenting to the fantasy. If you have been given the green light to be watching, there is nothing wrong with what you’re doing.

When Voyeurism Is Unacceptable

You’re crossing the line when the people you’re watching are not aware that you’re doing it. If there is no consent, the voyeurism is not okay. In fact, it is very, very wrong. If for any reason you want to watch people have sex without their consent, do not; you cannot violate the consent of others.

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5 Sexy Christmas Gifts That Are Perfect For Both You and Your Partner

There’s no better way to spice up your holiday traditions than by trying new ones. Have you and your partner ventured into something other than the typical P-in-V sex yet? If not, we have some ideas for you; in fact, we have 5 sexy Christmas gifts that will benefit both of you.


Everyone—male or female, gay or straight—can enjoy strap-on sex. Comfortable to wear and ultra-sexy, a harness allows for hands-free dildo fun.

If comfort is your main concern, rest assured that today’s harnesses are designed with ultimate comfort in mind. Many of our harnesses feature velvety soft inner linings and multiple adjustable straps, so your strap-on can truly be an extension of you. Just be sure to review minimum and maximum sizing for the best possible fit.

We-Vibe Sync Couples Vibrator

Sync is one of the best sexy Christmas gifts you can buy! It’s designed to be enjoyed with a partner during sex. She gets powerful stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot and together, you both share the vibe. Touch, tease and turn each other on from anywhere. Download the free We-Connect app and play together, even when you’re apart.

Our Weekend in Bed Kit Contains Many Sexy Christmas Gifts

For couples interested in getting into some consensual bondage play, this kit has all of the things you need to get started. Whether you spend the holidays at home or in another romantic location, you and your lover can always spend it in bed with these sexy Christmas gifts! Make that time together more exciting and passionate with our Weekend in Bed Game Kit. Includes: 2 Adult Card Games, Satin Carry Bag, Paddle, Feather, Blindfold, Flogger, and Candle.

Sex Sling

A sex sling helps angle your hips to target your G-spot during sex. Place over your door for an instant sex sling. Includes a padded seat that pivots for access at any angle. Foot straps and hand grips provide ultimate leverage.

Liberator Large Triangle Sex Cushion

This, my friends, is a sex cushion. It’s portable, washable, and can be stored beneath the bed or in your closet. It’s amazing for propping up your body while experimenting with different positions for maximum impact. You’ll be amazed at what a difference lifting up your booty makes.

Need Help Shopping for Sexy Christmas Gifts?

This holiday season, you and your partner can give the gift of lasting intimacy by gifting one (or more) of these sexy Christmas gifts to each other. Don’t underestimate the importance of investing in your sex life, either – the chemical bonds you build up with your partner will last much longer than the holidays and I can’t think of anything more merry and bright.

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Why You Should Be Very Careful About Buying Sex Toys From Big Online Retailers Make Sure You Get the Pleasure You Want!

There are many online retailers where you can shop when buying sex toys. Today, we’re using Amazon as an example.

Amazon has more than a million brands, hundreds of millions of products and more than five million marketplace sellers. There is no data available regarding how many of those products are sex toys, but the site’s “sexual wellness” is full of vibrators, dildos, and other sex toys.

The problem is that even if you shop on Amazon after doing some research you might end up with a fake. This has to do with the way Amazon commingles listings from different sellers on the site – and the way it fulfills them.

The worst part is, these lower priced counterfeit goods can easily out-compete authentic, well-made sex toys on Amazon and at other retailers. To add to the confusion, Amazon is rife with fake reviews that further confuse consumers about what they’re getting.

Why So Many People Turn to Amazon When Buying Sex Toys

The appeal of shopping for sex toys on Amazon is twofold. One, as we’ve mentioned, is that there appear to be some good prices on toys that are in demand. The other is that Amazon is so mainstream that it may make people feel more comfortable about buying sex toys.

Buying a vibrator can be adventurous enough, so having a private retail experience you are comfortable with can make it easier to buy something that feels uncomfortable to buy.

How All This Cheap Stuff Hurts the Sex Toy Industry and Consumers

If you don’t know much about the sex toy industry, you may not know how much it’s changed over the past 10 years or so. Buying sex toys is becoming more mainstream and, as a result, consumers are no longer ashamed to demand high-quality, body-safe toys for their money.

The products being released today have more research behind them than ever. Companies are fine-tuning motors and shapes, but they are also elevating the entire experience for consumers who are buying sex toys.  They’re doing this by hiring sex educators, providing sex education and getting really involved at the consumer level.

Plus, consumers are getting smarter. We now know that some materials aren’t safe enough to put into our orifices. We know that sexual pleasure – including any devices used to achieve it – isn’t weird or shameful, it’s a part of being human. And we know that many companies out there have been stepping up and putting in the hard work to make beautiful, safe, well-designed pleasure products for people.

Don’t You Owe It To Yourself?

If you’re in the market, you owe it to yourself to get a product that’s made by a manufacturer who actually cares about your pleasure and your health, and one that will deliver the goods for years to come. They don’t come cheap, but they are worth your time and money.

After all, when you are buying sex toys you are essentially buying into the idea that you deserve pleasure. Don’t you want to make sure you actually get it?

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How to Have the Best Missionary Sex Ever We're defying the 'missionary is boring' narrative right now.

For some frustrating reason the missionary sex position is often written off as the easiest – and therefore the most boring – sex position of all time. First, it’s as boring as you make it…and secondly, it’s a classic for a reason.

Polls actually indicate that it was voted the third most popular – after doggy and cowgirl – with 12% of couples choosing it as their favorite. Today we’re sharing some easy tips for having great, safe, and enjoyable, missionary position sex.

Skin-on-skin contact during missionary sex.

One of the beauties of missionary sex is that it allows for lots of skin contact, so go for maximum skin contact. Pull them close, and feel your chests pressed together.

Keep it moving.

The missionary position doesn’t mean you have to lie still as your partner moves. Try bending your knees, planting your feet on the mattress (or ground) and moving your hips. You can rock your hips back and forth or move them in circles.

Keep it playful.

Remember, approximately 75 per cent of people with vaginas can’t climax purely through intercourse. Good news – the missionary position is particularly well suited to this. Simply reach down and stroke yourself while your partner penetrates you.

Try some toys.

Sex toys are so much fun, and also make partnered sex more exciting and varied. Try introducing a small bullet vibrator into your lovemaking. Either of you can use it to stimulate your clitoris before, and during penetration. (Read: How to Choose a Vibrator.) (Watch: How to Introduce Sex Toys Into the Bedroom.)

Put a ring on it.

It’s also worth experimenting with one of the most popular couples’ sex toys – a vibrating love ring, aka cock ring during missionary sex. This is worn around the penis during sex and it restricts blood flow, giving the person harder and longer erections. It contains a small bullet vibrator on top to maximize your pleasure, by vibrating against your clitoris while your partner grinds. Be sure to use lots of lubeso you’re both comfortable. (Read: How to Use C-Rings.)

Keep eye contact.

This has to be the most important plus for missionary sex when it comes to intimacy. One fun way to add real intimacy is to try to hold eye contact during orgasm when you are climaxing together.

Kick it up with kink.

Without the ability to move your arms, or see what is happening, every tiny touch will feel more intense. Introduce some handcuffs and/or a blindfold, just to add an element of surprise. (Read: How to Introduce King Into Your Relationship.)

Express how you’re feeling.

We all know by now that communication is the one true key to great sex. But missionary position is the perfect one for speaking softly to each other.

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Oral Sex Tips: Go Down On Her Like A Pro Be prepared with all the information you need!

Whatever your term for it, this sex act has the potential to create an intensely pleasurable experience for your partner, as long as you’re equipped with the right information. So today we’re sharing some of our best oral sex tips. As you’re reading them, keep in mind that these are general tips that apply to anyone – regardless of gender – who possesses genitalia traditionally understood as female.

Patience is definitely a virtue.

Patience goes a long way when you’re trying to get a woman off, particularly when it comes to oral sex. Focus on a slow buildup then pay special attention to the clitoris, which, for many women, must be stimulated in order for them to have an orgasm. Stay on the clitoris and choose a motion that she enjoys then keep doing it until she comes.

Put your hands to good use.

Your tongue is a great tool, but the key to awesome oral sex is literally at your fingertips. When going down on your partner, you can supplement some tongue action by using your hands to stroke the clitoris, play with the labia or finger her. You can even throw some sex toys into the mix.

Ask her what she wants.

Mind reading is overrated. The best way to know what a woman wants in bed is simple: Ask her. Too much between-the-sheets chatter may not seem sexy to some, but your commitment to making your partner feel amazing will be appreciated. We promise.

Don’t neglect the labia.

The clitoris deserves your attention, no doubt, but don’t underestimate the power of other parts of the female anatomy, like the labia. In fact, the labia (the inner and outer folds of the vulva) are often neglected, but they shouldn’t be, as they are full of nerve endings.

Show your enthusiasm.

For women, especially, being in the right frame of mind – relaxed, confident, not too tired – is essential to accessing pleasure. If you can let your partner know that you’re genuinely excited about doing it, not just doing it because you feel like it’s expected, you’ll put them at ease and increase the level of pleasure they’ll feel.

Just keep going.

One orgasm is great, but two is fantastic. (Oral sex tips: The clitoris can be very sensitive after climax, so don’t dive back in for Big O number two right away.) In the meantime, focus your attention on other less sensitive areas. Once you’ve given the clitoris some time to recover, you can gear up for round two. If your partner is into it, consider holding her hands down to help steady her body so she soaks up all the sensations. Getting her to open up and hold still might take some gentle manual bondage. This in itself can be super-hot. Read: How to Make Your Woman Orgasm Multiple Times.

One of our surprising oral sex tips: Try humming.

This may seem like one of the oddest oral sex tips, but there’s nothing ho-hum about a hummer. Humming while going down on your partner can create a rather pleasurable, buzzy sensation. Humming essentially produces vibrations that will resonate in your partner’s genitals. You’re essentially turning yourself into a human vibrator and it can be a real turn-on.

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Read: How to Give Her the Best Orgasm Ever!

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