Sexology 101

Naughty Holiday Sex Tips Because who doesn't like holiday sex?

It’s the holiday season, and Santa coming down your chimney takes on a whole different meaning. Check out our holiday sex tips that are sure to put you on the naughty list!

Although it has a wholesome reputation, it turns out that Christmas is actually kind of sexy. Surveys found that nearly half of those questioned planned to have holiday sex on Christmas Day. Studies also show that the months August and September have the most births each year, which corresponds perfectly with findings of Americans being rather frisky during the holidays.

If you’re looking for some sexy, yet seasonal inspiration for holiday sex, here are some ideas to get you going. Cue up “Santa Baby” and hurry down the chimney tonight.

Get On The Naughty List

Indulge in some light BDSM — one of you has been naughty and has to be punished.

Lick Their Candy Cane (Or Peppermint)

Indulge in oral holiday sex but make it seasonal.

Christmas Shoes

For those with a foot fetish.

Wrap Them Up

Tie your partner up, using velvet ribbon if you want to get fancy.

A Christmas Toy

Buy your partner a new sex toy and let them open it early.

Baby It’s Cold

This song is now about temperature play. Grab an ice cube and have fun.

Kiss Them Underneath The Mistletoe

Put mistletoe around the house and go wild. You don’t have to stop at just kissing, either, enjoy some good old holiday sex.

Kissing Santa Claus

Put on a Santa hat and act out the song.

Toy Box

Lavish your partner’s “box” with attention.

Santa’s Lap

Take the opportunity for some sitting-down sex. Either one of you sits and the other kneels between their legs to go down on them, or one sits and the other rides their penis or strap-on.

Deck The Halls

Whether nipple or clit clamps add some sexy decor to you or your partner’s body.

Christmas Candles

Find a massage candle and try out an erotic massage.

Wonderful Christmastime

Act out your partner’s fantasy for a holiday they’ll never forget.

Santa Claus Is Coming

Try for multiple orgasms – even if you don’t get there, you’ll have fun trying.

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How to Have Multiple Orgasms with a Vibrator Read Our Top Tips

Multiple orgasms aren’t just a legend or part of some unachievable fantasy for everyone. The truth is that many women enjoy multiple orgasms with a vibrator. If you’re wondering whether it’s possible for you, you might want to try some of our top tips. Even if you don’t get more than one orgasm, you’ll have a lot of fun and pleasure in the process.

Relax To Have Multiple Orgasms With A Vibrator

Orgasms don’t do well when you’re feeling pressured. Masturbation is a great stress reliever and relaxation enhancer, but if you’re concerned about how many orgasms you’re going to have, it’s more difficult to have them. Don’t have an expectation of what should happen. Instead of setting a goal of how fast or how many times you’ll get off, let it be a moment of pure pleasure.

Add Lube To Have Multiple Orgasms With A Vibrator

If you’re not using lube when you masturbate, we recommend that you do even if you’re not penetrating yourself with your vibrator. Lube helps your sex toy glide across your body more easily so you can focus more on your pleasure.

Focus Your Vibrator Where You Like It Most

One of our top tips is to make sure your vibrator hits all the right spots. It can be easy to tell ourselves that we should try more clit play when we love to have our g-spot stroked, or vice versa. There’s no “should” in self-pleasure, so focus the stimulation wherever you enjoy it most!

Get Your Whole Body Into It

Even if your vibrator is buzzing or pulsing against your g-spot, clitoris, both (or somewhere else), don’t leave the rest of your body out of the fun. Extra sensations can boost your pleasure and make it easier for you to enjoy multiple orgasms with a vibrator. Run your hands down your thighs or pinch your nipples. Masturbation – with or without a vibrator – should be a whole-body experience.

Adjust the Vibrator Settings

While you can’t actually become “addicted” to a vibrator, you can get used to the stimulation. For multiple orgasms with a vibrator experiment with the different settings. If you’ve been using the same setting for some time, you might not realize what other intensities or patterns can feel like. In many cases, increasing the sensation makes it easier to get off multiple times.

Be Patient

For some people, the first orgasm can take a while, when for others the first one is easy, but subsequent ones might take longer. The point of masturbation, with or without a partner, doesn’t have to be about the orgasm. It can be more about how you feel, having fun, and relieving stress.

Use Your Fantasies

If you’ve got a masturbation routine that you always stick to, you might be missing out on a mind-body connection. Before or after your first orgasm, let your mind wander to whatever turns you on most. Your vibrator can play a part in the action or it can be the thing that gets you off in the background while your mind wanders. This is all in your head where no one else has to know, so give your imagination free rein.

Too many people think orgasms – one or more – are the whole point of sexual pleasure and many of us want as many as we can get. But sexual pleasure is also about finding out what turns you on, getting in touch with your body, giving in to your fantasies, and enjoying yourself.

But if you’ve always wanted to know if you could have multiple orgasms with a vibrator, grab your favorite toy, and try these tips. Even if you don’t get off several times in a row, you’ll still have fun playing.

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Spice Things Up In The Bedroom With Our Top 6 Tips Don't deal with a boring love life!

So, things haven’t been all that great in the bedroom lately and, in fact, it has become rather routine. Being intimate has become vanilla and boring. But your love story isn’t over, it just needs to be set on a different course. Here are our 6 top tips to help spice things up in the bedroom.

Change location to spice things up in the bedroom.

If you restrict lovemaking to just the bedroom, it’s time to explore all the other areas of the house. Try the kitchen counter, corridor, by the main door, on the balcony, the dining table, the shower, the couch, or even the sink. The possibilities are endless, so do it on every available surface in your house. Not knowing where you’re doing it next will be exciting and probably send your sex lives through the roof.

Take the lead to spice things up in the bedroom.

Although many people prefer being the dominant one, they also like being told what to do sometimes. Take the lead, undress your partner and cater to his or her needs first. Tell your partner what you want and how you want it. This trading of places has proven quite successful in bringing back the heat. Tell your partner to sit down and hush up, because you’re in control now.

Send some sexy text messages.

Never stop flirting with your significant other even if the two of you are together. When it comes to being intimate, the stimulation of the mind is a great component. Send your partner a risqué text – so risqué that if your mother sees it, she’ll pass out. Tell your partner how you can’t wait for them to get home and show them what they’ve been missing. Get as descriptive as possible, by the time he or she gets home, it’s game on!

Lingerie is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom.

Buy some sexy lingerie, some your partner has never seen before. Try some satin or lace – a sultry black and red usually does the trick, as does white. White is considered a sign of purity, but what is running through your partner’s mind as he looks at you in it is nothing close to pure.

Kama sutra it.

To spice things up in the bedroom, get yourself a Kama sutra book and explore new positions that you didn’t know existed. You and your partner can take this time to discover your levels of experimentation. If a position looks interesting, try it and have fun with it. Keep track of which ones you’ve tried to ensure that you aren’t stuck with missionary forever.

Toys are always fun.

Adult toys, although advertised for self-pleasure, can be used with a partner. Adding a toy in the bedroom can really spice things up. Ask your partner if he or she is willing to bring in a little vibrating friend to the game and just to make them more confident, ask your partner to use the toy on you. Give your partner all the power to control the activity. In most cases, he or she will be more than glad to ‘play’ with you. Once more comfortable, you can explore more intense toys.

These are just a few pointers to help you spice things up in the bedroom. If you need help buying sex toys or other enhancers for men and women, our expert staff is here to help!

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Never Do These 8 Things After Having Sex! Tips to Keep Your Body Healthy!

Right after having sex, you’re probably luxuriating in the post-coital flood of hormones that make you feel sleepy. But even if you’re feeling tired, there are several things you should be doing – and not doing – right after sex to help keep your body as healthy as possible.

Don’t forget to use the bathroom after having sex.

It might not feel super sexy to immediately step away from your partner to use the bathroom but emptying your bladder post-sex is actually pretty important because sexual activity can push bacteria up the urethra, which can lead to bladder infections or urinary tract infections. Using the bathroom flushes out the area, lowering the risk of infection.

Avoid bathing in super-hot water.

Taking a bath or a shower after sex is fine, but you might want to skip a post-sex soak in the hot tub, especially if you have a vagina. Excessive water exposure can elevate your risk of contracting an infection.

Don’t use perfumed or scented products on your genital area after having sex.

While there’s no shortage of scented soaps, gels, washes, lotions, and other products marketed for genital health, these products can irritate internal and external skin and should be avoided immediately after having sex, especially for those with a vagina.

Don’t ever douche.

Even though douching after having sex is often marketed as a safe and healthy way to prevent pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections, douching alters your normal vaginal flora and will increase your risk of UTIs, yeast infections, and bacterial vaginosis, which is a condition caused by vaginal inflammation when there is an overgrowth of bacteria.

Don’t put your sex toys away without thoroughly cleaning them.

Certain sex toys need to be cleaned differently than others. Just as you should clean your body after sex, you should clean any sex toys you used because they are usually synthetic and can hold bacteria. Keep them clean and they will not increase the risk of infection. Paying attention to the toy’s specific directions for keeping it clean is crucial.

Don’t put on any tight-fitting clothing or lingerie immediately after sex.

Donning anything tight-fitting before or during sex is fine. But wearing them immediately after sex isn’t the best idea because there is an excess of bodily fluids and the friction spreads the bacteria around. It’s a good idea to allow free drainage and air to allow the body to naturally cleanse itself. Either wear nothing or loose clothing.

Don’t wait until after sex to speak to your partner about their sexual health.

Regularly being tested for STIs is a crucial part of sexual health, but you shouldn’t wait until after having sex to have open and honest communication with your partner about any concerns you might have. Talking about STI testing is a good idea, so if you get tested and have the results, then it is easy to ask that they be tested.

Don’t immediately grab your phone or the TV remote.

Even if you’re not planning on sticking around or need to leave shortly after sex, you might want to avoid immediately grabbing your phone or turning on the TV after having sex. The moments after sex can be a great way to bond with your partner. Scrolling through social media or watching TV limits your chances of enjoying those post-coital feelings of bliss, so savor them while you can.

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Black Studded Garter Belt

Black Studded Garter Belt will add a Dom flair to any black outfit.

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Why You Should Be Very Careful About Buying Sex Toys From Big Online Retailers Make Sure You Get the Pleasure You Want!

There are many online retailers where you can shop when buying sex toys. Today, we’re using Amazon as an example.

Amazon has more than a million brands, hundreds of millions of products and more than five million marketplace sellers. There is no data available regarding how many of those products are sex toys, but the site’s “sexual wellness” is full of vibrators, dildos, and other sex toys.

The problem is that even if you shop on Amazon after doing some research you might end up with a fake. This has to do with the way Amazon commingles listings from different sellers on the site – and the way it fulfills them.

The worst part is, these lower priced counterfeit goods can easily out-compete authentic, well-made sex toys on Amazon and at other retailers. To add to the confusion, Amazon is rife with fake reviews that further confuse consumers about what they’re getting.

Why So Many People Turn to Amazon When Buying Sex Toys

The appeal of shopping for sex toys on Amazon is twofold. One, as we’ve mentioned, is that there appear to be some good prices on toys that are in demand. The other is that Amazon is so mainstream that it may make people feel more comfortable about buying sex toys.

Buying a vibrator can be adventurous enough, so having a private retail experience you are comfortable with can make it easier to buy something that feels uncomfortable to buy.

How All This Cheap Stuff Hurts the Sex Toy Industry and Consumers

If you don’t know much about the sex toy industry, you may not know how much it’s changed over the past 10 years or so. Buying sex toys is becoming more mainstream and, as a result, consumers are no longer ashamed to demand high-quality, body-safe toys for their money.

The products being released today have more research behind them than ever. Companies are fine-tuning motors and shapes, but they are also elevating the entire experience for consumers who are buying sex toys.  They’re doing this by hiring sex educators, providing sex education and getting really involved at the consumer level.

Plus, consumers are getting smarter. We now know that some materials aren’t safe enough to put into our orifices. We know that sexual pleasure – including any devices used to achieve it – isn’t weird or shameful, it’s a part of being human. And we know that many companies out there have been stepping up and putting in the hard work to make beautiful, safe, well-designed pleasure products for people.

Don’t You Owe It To Yourself?

If you’re in the market, you owe it to yourself to get a product that’s made by a manufacturer who actually cares about your pleasure and your health, and one that will deliver the goods for years to come. They don’t come cheap, but they are worth your time and money.

After all, when you are buying sex toys you are essentially buying into the idea that you deserve pleasure. Don’t you want to make sure you actually get it?

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Wine Sheer Teddy

Wine Sheer Teddy is a elegant piece of lingerie. You will feel sexy as well as elegant in this outfit.

The front features sheer wine embellished material. The back is a sheer black thong.

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Lace Teddy

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Strappy Onesie

Strappy Onesie is one of the hottest items we have. You will have your partner drooling in this sexy outfit.

The top features a mesh, giving your partner a tease to what is to come. Strappy Onesie has garters and also comes with thigh highs.

This outfit comes in black, and is also one size fits most.

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Strappy 2PC

Strappy 2PC is a sexy 2PC bra and panty set. You will have your partner panting in this sultry outfit.

The bra and panty features mesh fabric, giving your partner just a little tease. Strappy 2PC has garters and also includes thigh highs.

Comes in one size fits most.

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Cutout Teddy

Cutout Teddy is a seductive switch from the traditional teddy. You will excite your partner with this wine colored lace outfit. Thin straps at all the right curves gives this piece a little edge. Cutout Teddy has adjustable shoulder straps as well as garters. Lace cuffs and hose are included.