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10 Secrets Guys Won’t Tell You About Sex Toys Tampa You might be surprised to know what he's hesitant to talk about!

Guys are often less likely to discuss sex toys than their female counterparts.  Today we’re breaking down the top 10 things that men typically don’t want to talk about with their partner when it comes to sex toys Tampa.

  1. If he even owns a sex toyThere’s a double standard in place here. Guys might less comfortable owning or talking about sex toys Tampa, but vibrators and dildos don’t have that same stigma for women. And it’s rather unfair for men in the long run, because there’s a lot of sex toys for men that can make sex a lot more fun. So don’t be surprised if this isn’t something that comes up – it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s not into it.
  2. He might be a little skeptical about bringing them into the bedroom. Since guys generally have less experience with adult toys, it’s possible he could be shy to start throwing anal beads and cock rings around your bed. Be prepared for him to start feeling self-conscious, and remember that it might be best to introduce them to him slowly with some small stuff before breaking out the big guns.
  3. He might be jealous of your vibrator.He knows how strange this sounds, but sometime you can’t justify a feeling. Plenty of guys don’t care how you get off when they’re not around, but when they come face-to-face with plastic that can do what they do and recharges, it’s easy to feel a little threatened. It’s especially true if he has a hard time getting you off in the first place. Deep down he knows nothing can replace a thoughtful, giving partner, but it’s helpful to remind of him.
  4. He might also see it as a way to “cheat” at sex. On the opposite end of the spectrum, he might love incorporating your vibrator if he’s feeling lazy. This is the first step on the path to truly embracing your vibrator.
  5. He’s curious how you clean all this stuff. Is it dishwasher safe? Do you give it a good soak? Do you just not clean it? Are there special wipes involved? And what about upkeep? What goes into that? (Have him read our blog: How to Clean and Maintain Your Sex Toys. Then send him in to buy some of our Toy Cleaners!)

Five More Things Men Won’t Discuss About Sex Toys Tampa

  1. And the ceremony behind it.Guys typically begin masturbating when they’re hanging around and realize their hand is already down their pants. It’s very spontaneous, nut it seems like there’s a very deliberate action in getting out your vibrator. Do you go right into that? Do you warm yourself up and then decide it’s time? He has a lot of questions.
  2. He probably doesn’t want to be “surprised” mid-session. It’s not the best idea to surprise your partner with a sex toy, especially if you plan on using it on him. Talk it out first to make sure he’s into it.
  3. He thinks you masturbating is hot. You may not have thought much about how he self-pleasures, but you’d be surprised at how much he’d be into just watching you. Seeing how turned on a sex toy makes you should be all the motivation he needs to get on board, fast.
  4. He’s curious how deep the practice of using sex toys Tampa will go.So you’ve got a vibrator? No big deal, that’s pretty common. But wait, are those nipple clamps? Is that a gag? Do I have the stamina for this?! He’ll probably be second-guessing himself a lot.
  5. People’s attitudes towards sex toys are all over the map. There are certain things that apply to that demographic in virtual totality, but with sex toys, some guys love them, some hate them, and some find them totally indecisive.

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Make It a Hot and Sexy Valentine’s Day With Our Top 9 Tips Get Everything You Need From the Best Adult Store in Tampa

Valentine’s Day is one of the only days that encourages romance and sexuality. Sure there’s your anniversary, birthday or “Sweetest Day,” but the one with the hearts and flowers is Valentine’s Day.  Speaking from both sides of the marital fence, it’s exciting to have someone to celebrate with on Valentine’s Day. So if you have someone, make it a memorable Valentine’s celebration this year.  So today we’re sharing our favorite tips for making yours a hot and sexy Valentine’s Day celebration.

You know the importance of keeping the spark alive – if you don’t fan the fire, it’s likely to burn out. Preparation is key for a sensual evening of fun. If you’re not in a relationship, you can utilize some of the tips as a single guy or girl; you just need to be open to the idea that you don’t need a partner to pleasure yourself.

Secrets To Making This Valentine’s Night Rock!

  1. Clean sheets and a freshly made bed. It seems simple, but lots of people forget this basic concept. Nothing screams anti-romance like stained sheets and dirty covers!
  2. Freshly showered and groomed bodies. This includes bathing, finger and toe nails clipped, teeth brushed, and private parts trimmed up so the person you’re with is turned on getting naked with you.
  3. Sexy music playlist. It doesn’t matter if your romantic musical taste is Marvin Gaye or Jay-Z, get it ready before time so you don’t kill the mood figuring out how to get the Bluetooth going. You don’t want to keep getting up in the middle of sex to change the song, so make your playlist ahead of time.
  4. Scented candles. Great sex utilizes all senses. If you get a few candles burning, several senses will be activated. A candle lit bedroom is great for making all those blemishes and pounds fade away. Massage oil candles are great – light it and it turns into warm oil while putting a mood fragrance in the air.
  5. Lingerie and boxers without holes.Wearing sexy teddies, thigh highs and crotchless panties are an instant turn on to both you and your partner. Men need to realize that boxers that are ripped and falling apart are NOT a turn on.
  6. Massage oil and personal lubricant. A massage is great foreplay and warms up the body. Adding massage oil and lube to the mix will get the juices flowing.
  7. Sexy games like the Weekend in Bed gameSexy fun any day of the week, you and your lover can make that time together more exciting and passionate with our new Weekend in Bed Game Kit. Includes 2 Adult Card Games, Satin Carry Bag, Paddle, Feather, Blindfold, Flogger, and Candle.
  8. Vibrators, whips, handcuffs or other adult toys. We have the best selection of adult toys in Tampa. Come on in and let one of our expert staff members help you choose! If you want to go a little 50 Shades Of Grey,” check out our selection by the same name. It’s all in good fun and will give you something different to remember about the night. Variety is the spice of life!
  9. Chocolates, strawberries, a bottle of water, and champagne will enhance your experience. Sex can work up an appetite and getting thirsty goes with the territory.

So, those are our secrets to creating a hot and sexy Valentine’s Day (and night). Don’t wait until the last minute – come in today and get the best of our selection!