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3 Ways to Have Fun with Sex Furniture

If your only experience with having good sex is lying flat on the bed, bent over a table, or standing in the shower, you’re missing out on a lot of fun. You can have fun with sex furniture — from swings to wedges — to make any kind of sex you have more exciting and better in a lot of ways.

Here’s how to add more fun with sex furniture to your life.

Get Kinky in New Ways

One person’s kinky sex is another person’s vanilla sex which means there’s no single way to explore kink. But the flexibility and support of sex furniture definitely makes it a lot easier.

Play with orgasm control while your partner is strapped into a sex swing. Explore different sensations — pain, heat, cold, sensual massage, etc. — from multiple angles. Use a strap-on harness and dildo for penetration fun while a sex wedge helps you get into the perfect position. Pick swings, swings, and other equipment that includes cuffs for bondage fun. Add a blindfold or a ball gag for even kinkier fun.

You can use swings and wedges as part of role-play fun or to add heat and spice to your usual sexy fun. Play with power and control or try kinky toys and positions you never have before.

Try New Sexual Positions to Have Fun with Sex Furniture

The overwhelming purpose of having fun with sex furniture is to help you have sex in a different position. The piece of furniture you pick will determine how much (or little) you can switch up your positions.

Sex slings and swings let you or your partner sit up or lie back completely, suspended by straps. Wedges let you reposition your body in ways your joints or muscles might not normally allow.

The angles of genitals to genitals or mouth to genitals changes and becomes easier than ever to have fun with sex furniture. With the right wedge or sling, you can finally get your body to move in ways that allow you to experiment with sex and pleasure in a new way.

Take a Load Off

Sex slings and swings take all the weight off your body, but especially your limbs and joints. They also make it easier for your partner to reach parts of your body from different angles, like sitting underneath your body during oral sex.

Sex wedges support your body so that you can hold a position longer. Want to get into doggy style but your knees can’t handle it? Placing your torso on a wedge takes the weight off the rest of your body, especially your knees.

The main benefit of sex furniture is that whatever kind of sex you have becomes immediately more comfortable. You’re able to accommodate your body’s abilities and needs without sacrificing the activities — penetration, oral sex, fun with sex toys — you love the most.

Sex toys are all about playing and trying new things. Sexual pleasure is meant to be fun.  You can have fun with sex furniture as another way to level up your pleasure and play. With the right equipment, you’re not limited by your body’s capabilities. You can stretch your body, your limits, and your experiences in all-new ways. The perfect wedge or swing lets you explore sex in all-new ways and really get the most out of any intimate moment.

If you need help choosing some exciting sex furniture, our experts are here to help! We have the best and biggest selection of adult products in the area. Stop by the best adult store Tampa today to see our complete selection of adult toysadult apparel (including a wide variety of lingerie and dancewear), adult gamesfetish toys and props, and more!

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Naughty Holiday Sex Tips Because who doesn't like holiday sex?

It’s the holiday season, and Santa coming down your chimney takes on a whole different meaning. Check out our holiday sex tips that are sure to put you on the naughty list!

Although it has a wholesome reputation, it turns out that Christmas is actually kind of sexy. Surveys found that nearly half of those questioned planned to have holiday sex on Christmas Day. Studies also show that the months August and September have the most births each year, which corresponds perfectly with findings of Americans being rather frisky during the holidays.

If you’re looking for some sexy, yet seasonal inspiration for holiday sex, here are some ideas to get you going. Cue up “Santa Baby” and hurry down the chimney tonight.

Get On The Naughty List

Indulge in some light BDSM — one of you has been naughty and has to be punished.

Lick Their Candy Cane (Or Peppermint)

Indulge in oral holiday sex but make it seasonal.

Christmas Shoes

For those with a foot fetish.

Wrap Them Up

Tie your partner up, using velvet ribbon if you want to get fancy.

A Christmas Toy

Buy your partner a new sex toy and let them open it early.

Baby It’s Cold

This song is now about temperature play. Grab an ice cube and have fun.

Kiss Them Underneath The Mistletoe

Put mistletoe around the house and go wild. You don’t have to stop at just kissing, either, enjoy some good old holiday sex.

Kissing Santa Claus

Put on a Santa hat and act out the song.

Toy Box

Lavish your partner’s “box” with attention.

Santa’s Lap

Take the opportunity for some sitting-down sex. Either one of you sits and the other kneels between their legs to go down on them, or one sits and the other rides their penis or strap-on.

Deck The Halls

Whether nipple or clit clamps add some sexy decor to you or your partner’s body.

Christmas Candles

Find a massage candle and try out an erotic massage.

Wonderful Christmastime

Act out your partner’s fantasy for a holiday they’ll never forget.

Santa Claus Is Coming

Try for multiple orgasms – even if you don’t get there, you’ll have fun trying.

Need more ideas for holiday sex? If you need help choosing a sex toy for Christmas for your partner, our experts are here to help! We have the best and biggest selection of adult products in the area. Stop by the best adult store Tampa today to see our complete selection of adult toysadult apparel (including a wide variety of lingerie and dancewear), adult gamesadult furniture, fetish toys and props, and more!

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Using a Vibrator: It’s Good for Your Health! The Benefits Abound!

Most people don’t realize it but using a vibrator to have a satisfying orgasm may make a headache go away, put yourself in a better mood, or alleviate anxiety. In fact, a vibrator can be good for your health. Here’s how.

Using a Vibrator Boosts Your Sexual Pleasure

If you’re having sex and not getting as much pleasure as you’d like, it can be difficult to get excited about having sex at all. You may also miss out on some of the health benefits of orgasms and the benefits of added intimacy in your relationship. If nothing else, the right vibrator may help you stay connected to what you enjoy about your body, during sex, and/or as you orgasm.

Orgasms Provide Health Benefits

Because using a vibrator helps you have an orgasm, it stands to reason that vibrators are good for you, too. Orgasms release feel-good hormones that help you relax, feel less stressed, and sleep better. And anyone who walks through life with tense muscles and no sleep knows how bad that can be for your well-being and everyone else around you.

Using a Vibrator Increases Blood Flow to the Genitals

As people age, blood circulation decreases to their genitals. For women and anyone with a vulva this can make it difficult to become aroused. You may also feel less stimulation from a hand or other body part. A vibrator can provide the sensations you’re missing helping your body become aroused and sending blood flowing back to your vulva.

Vibrators Keep You Sexually Active

Not all sex requires a partner. And if you’re craving arousal, pleasure, and an orgasm or two, the right sex toy makes that easier to have. Why does this matter for your sexual health? Because sex and your body’s response to it and the sensations you feel are a use it or lose it kind of thing. Go too long without paying any attention to your sexual needs, and you may find it difficult to get back to it when you’re ready to get down with a partner.

Using a vibrator can be good for your health if being sexually satisfied and active is important to you. If you find it difficult or less enjoyable to orgasm with your hand or during penetrative sex, then vibrators may be the key to increasing your sexual health — and pleasure.

For anyone who wants to incorporate using a vibrator into your sexual wellness, it’s important to find one that feels good to you and that you want to use. We have the best and biggest selection of adult products (including vibrators) in the area. Stop by the best adult store Tampa today to see our complete selection of adult toysadult apparel (including a wide variety of lingerie and dancewear), adult gamesadult furniture, fetish toys and props, and more!

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What Adult Store Employees Want You To Know It Doesn't Have to be Intimidating!

If you’ve only ever visited an adult store for gag gifts or bachelorette party accessories, the thought of choosing some things for your own pleasure – and admitting it out loud – can be a bit intimidating. But once you get past the initial stage of opening up to the sales associate about the sexiest details about your life, it can feel very liberating.

Adult store employees are open-minded and ready to help you upgrade your sex life from blah to fabulous, all while dealing with the many misconceptions that come with the job.

Here are some things they want you to know.

Adult stores are a safe place to be yourself.

Unlike some retail stores that give off a one-size-fits-all vibe, adult stores are a judgement-free zone. Sometimes they find that women don’t feel comfortable expressing their interests, partly because they didn’t know what their interests were, or they were worried about looking promiscuous if they did. But there’s literally something for everyone, and if you don’t know what yours is, you can explore and ask questions without feeling pressured to buy.

Adult store employees are super qualified.

Working in an adult store is no different than working in other retail environments. Like any other sales job, they have to have certain credentials and are trained to work in the store. They just want to help people own their sexuality and feel comfortable with their bodies.

There’s no reason to feel ashamed or nervous.

Believe it or not, your fantasies are no different than those of others. Studies indicate that sexual interests that are usually considered taboo are actually normal.

Everyone – yes, everyone – needs lube.

Some female customers think that needing lube makes them less womanly, or they’re concerned that their male partner will feel inadequate if they need lube to get slippery for sex. And although there’s a common belief that a woman’s wetness depends on her level of arousal, there are plenty of things that can affect self-lubrication, including hormone fluctuations, pregnancy – even antihistamines and antidepressants. Even naturally wet women can reach orgasm faster with lube.

There’s one question they wish you wouldn’t ask.

While it’s okay to ask for recommendations, it’s not okay to ask an adult store employee what they love the most. Not only is it invasive, but the answer won’t help you determine which toy is right for you. Everyone is different and is turned on by different things.

Now that you’re armed with these tips, come visit us! We have the best and biggest selection of adult products in the area. Stop by the best adult store Tampa today to see our complete selection of adult toysadult apparel (including a wide variety of lingerie and dancewear), adult gamesadult furniture, fetish toys and props, and more!

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Doggy Style Sex: Tips For Making It Even Hotter It's One of the Most Popular Sex Positions!

Ever wonder why doggy style sex is so popular? Well, for people with vaginas, the angle can stimulate the G-spot, which is often the easiest way to climax through penetration. For people with penises, it allows for deeper penetration and an unobstructed view of their partner. It can also feel very primal for both partners, which is a huge turn-on for a lot of people.

Today we’re sharing tips to make doggy style sex even better.

Take the ‘Stairway to Heaven’.

This is a simple-but-effective alternative on doggy style that can be enjoyed on the stairs in your home. Just kneel facing the stairs with your hands leaning on an upper step, and have your partner kneel down on the same step with their legs outside of yours as they penetrate you. Bring something soft to lean on so you both don’t get carpet burns.

Use a mirror during doggy style sex.

During doggy-style sex, it’s not easy to make eye contact with your partner. Putting yourselves in front of a mirror allows for greater closeness with a great view.

Comfort is key.

Some people who have vaginas sometimes find that doggy-style sex can be a bit uncomfortable. This is usually because the depth of penetration presses on their cervix during penetration. An easy alternative is for the receiving partner to use the side of the bed, a chair, or a headboard to press their arms against. This will move their torso into a more upright position.

Make it a quickie.

Doggy style sex is a great position for spontaneous quickie sex. As long as you’re somewhere private where no one is likely to stumble upon you, a standing version of doggy can be a great way to move the action out of the bedroom. Keep in mind that although the thrill of being caught can be very stimulating, it’s important not to expose other people to something that they haven’t consented to seeing.

 Add a sex toy into the mix.

Despite all the great things about it, doggy style sex isn’t the greatest position for people who need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. But it does allow either partner to reach the clitoris effortlessly with a vibrator or a hand. Try combining doggy style sex with a small but powerful toy, like a bullet vibrator. This way you can stimulate the clitoris while relaxing on one hand as your partner enters from behind. For a more intimate experience, they can hold the toy against you.

Change up the legs.

If you can pull your legs close together during doggy style sex, you can boost the sensation because it makes you feel tighter. Not only does this deliver extra stimulation to your partner, but you’ll also enjoy it as you’ll be able to feel more of their movements, too. Try moving your legs as close together as you can, and you can even cross one knee over the other.

Drop it down low.

This is like typically doggy except you stretch your legs out, so you and your partner are both lying down, with your partner on top. Some people enjoy this version because it allows you and your partner to hug, kiss, and feel more intimate. To improve the sensation and make penetration easier, try slipping a sex pillow underneath your hips.

Lube it up during doggy style sex.

A good water-based lubricant will enhance any sex position, particularly one like doggy style where there is a lot of friction involved.

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10 Questions To Ask When Buying a Sex Toy Sex toys are too personal to purchase without giving your purchase some consideration.

Buying a sex toy seems pretty straightforward – just find one you like and purchase it. But sex toys are too personal to purchase without giving your purchase some consideration.

When you’re buying a sex toy, be sure to answer these questions first.

What Type Of Sex Toy Do You Want?

This sounds pretty basic, but it’s worth some consideration. Are you playing with your butt or genitals? Do you like internal or external stimulation? Do you want the toy to vibrate or not? When you can answer these questions, you can narrow down your choices to one that will meet your needs.

Will You Use Your Sex Toy With A Partner or By Yourself?

Any sex toy can be used with a partner, but some are designed with two people in mind. A We-Vibe Sync can be used alone or with a partner, and when using their app, you can play together, even when you’re separated by miles. If that’s too much for you, when buying a sex toy you might want to consider a small vibrator or basic cock ring as both work with a partner or alone.

When Buying A Sex Toy, Consider What Sensations You Want To Experience

A lot of the sensations will depend on your body and how you want to play with your new toy. When you’re buying a sex toy and you have a penis, you may want something that keeps you hard or mimics sex with a partner. On the other hand, if you have a vulva, you may prefer vibrations instead of penetration, or you may want both.

How Do You Want To Use Your Sex Toy?

Consider what you are trying to accomplish when buying a sex toy. Ben wa balls stimulate the body and senses but don’t typically lead to orgasms. Ask yourself if you want to build up stamina, ease boredom, or get off? There’s no right or wrong answer, but how you answer that question determines what type of toy may be best for you.

What Do You Want Your New Toy To Look Like?

Do you want something large or small, short or long, narrow or thick? Butt plugs and small dildos offer something different than larger options, while a bullet vibrator provides a different type of stimulation than a large rabbit vibrator.

How Do You Want the Toy To Feel Against Your Skin?

Some materials will last longer and are safer, like glass, metal, and silicone. They feel soft but can also be cool or hard. Some other materials feel like an actual partner, but they can break down over time and can collect bacteria if not cleaned properly.

Will You Need Lube?

Almost any sex toy can be used with lubricant, but certain toys need it. If you’re buying a sex toy that involves your butt, always use lube. If you’re moving up a size in your toy collection, buy lube. It’ll make adjusting to the larger size more comfortable.

Do You Want A Sex Toy That Needs Batteries?

Vibrators and other sex toys that use batteries aren’t for everyone. Some prefer a quiet, people-powered experience. When buying a sex toy, if you want something that vibrators, pulsates or hums, your next decision will be between a battery-charged and rechargeable toy.

How Will You Clean Your New Toy?

Regardless of the type, all toys need to be cleaned. Anything that has a motor or battery must be cleaned by hand and never fully immersed in water. If you’re buying a sex toy made of realistic materials, you may want to use a condom to make cleanup quick and easy. All sex toys can be cleaned with soap and water or a sex toy cleaner.

What is Your Budget?

Sex toys vary in price from a few dollars to a few hundred dollars. And spending more doesn’t automatically mean it will be better for you. But many high-quality toys, like silicone dildos or luxury vibrators, often cost more than the average sex toy. Ensure that your sex toy has all of the features you want and is constructed of a safe material. If it doesn’t, it’s not worth whatever you pay for it.

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Spice Things Up In The Bedroom With Our Top 6 Tips Don't deal with a boring love life!

So, things haven’t been all that great in the bedroom lately and, in fact, it has become rather routine. Being intimate has become vanilla and boring. But your love story isn’t over, it just needs to be set on a different course. Here are our 6 top tips to help spice things up in the bedroom.

Change location to spice things up in the bedroom.

If you restrict lovemaking to just the bedroom, it’s time to explore all the other areas of the house. Try the kitchen counter, corridor, by the main door, on the balcony, the dining table, the shower, the couch, or even the sink. The possibilities are endless, so do it on every available surface in your house. Not knowing where you’re doing it next will be exciting and probably send your sex lives through the roof.

Take the lead to spice things up in the bedroom.

Although many people prefer being the dominant one, they also like being told what to do sometimes. Take the lead, undress your partner and cater to his or her needs first. Tell your partner what you want and how you want it. This trading of places has proven quite successful in bringing back the heat. Tell your partner to sit down and hush up, because you’re in control now.

Send some sexy text messages.

Never stop flirting with your significant other even if the two of you are together. When it comes to being intimate, the stimulation of the mind is a great component. Send your partner a risqué text – so risqué that if your mother sees it, she’ll pass out. Tell your partner how you can’t wait for them to get home and show them what they’ve been missing. Get as descriptive as possible, by the time he or she gets home, it’s game on!

Lingerie is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom.

Buy some sexy lingerie, some your partner has never seen before. Try some satin or lace – a sultry black and red usually does the trick, as does white. White is considered a sign of purity, but what is running through your partner’s mind as he looks at you in it is nothing close to pure.

Kama sutra it.

To spice things up in the bedroom, get yourself a Kama sutra book and explore new positions that you didn’t know existed. You and your partner can take this time to discover your levels of experimentation. If a position looks interesting, try it and have fun with it. Keep track of which ones you’ve tried to ensure that you aren’t stuck with missionary forever.

Toys are always fun.

Adult toys, although advertised for self-pleasure, can be used with a partner. Adding a toy in the bedroom can really spice things up. Ask your partner if he or she is willing to bring in a little vibrating friend to the game and just to make them more confident, ask your partner to use the toy on you. Give your partner all the power to control the activity. In most cases, he or she will be more than glad to ‘play’ with you. Once more comfortable, you can explore more intense toys.

These are just a few pointers to help you spice things up in the bedroom. If you need help buying sex toys or other enhancers for men and women, our expert staff is here to help!

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How To Have Multiple Orgasms Why Stop at One?

Multiple orgasms just sound hot, but not everyone agrees what that means. Sure, the basics are in the name –  multiple orgasms, obviously means you’re having more than one. But it’s the timing where things can get confusing. Today we’re sharing tips on how to have multiple orgasms – because who wants to stop at just one?

What are Multiple Orgasms?

Some define multiple orgasms as two or more orgasms that happen one after the other, in quick succession. For instance, you might have partnered sex or masturbate and then have an orgasm, and then another, and another, and another. The second and third might feel like aftershocks; then again, they may feel just as robust as the first one.

Others define multiple orgasms as two or more orgasms that occur during a single sex session. For example, if you go down on your partner and they orgasm, and then your partner goes down on you and you orgasm, and then your partner starts to use a sex toy and you orgasm again, that would also be considered as multiple orgasms.

And about that sex toy – many people find they can enjoy multiple orgasms is by using a wand-style vibrator, either with a partner or solo. You don’t have to use sex toys to have multiple orgasms, but if you’re interested, it might be worth trying.

Teach Yourself How To Have Multiple Orgasms

Whether you like to have multiple orgasms during one session or multiple orgasms in a span of five minutes, the way to get there is basically the same.

When doing so, focus on three areas. The first is to stop being so goal-oriented. There’s a bit of a catch-22 situation – the more you want something, the less you’ll be likely to accomplish it.

The second step is to work on accessing deep pleasure, which is different for each person. Only you know what it takes to access deep pleasure in your body.  The fun part is experimenting with different sexual situations and activities to determine when you’re feeling the deepest sense of pleasure.

The third step is to de-stress. A lot of people don’t realize how much stress they’re experiencing in their daily lives. And while reducing stress doesn’t necessarily sound sexy, it’s proven to be really effective in helping people access their orgasmic energy. And the more sexual energy you have access to, the more orgasms you will enjoy.

Remember – it’s about the journey, not just the destination. Keep in mind that having one orgasmic goal can keep you from experiencing amazing pleasure in the process. So enjoy the process, because that is what’s going to get you the outcome that you want.

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Sex Toys for Men: How To Get Rid of the Shame It's not about masculinity.

Sex toys for men are now commonly available and more men than ever are buying them. But the shame remains for many men who are afraid of what sex toys say about their masculinity, virility, and even their sexuality. Most of this is due to the lack of sex education and the misconceptions about what a man’s role is in pleasure and sex.

If shame is keeping you or your partner from exploring sex toys for men, here are some ways to diminish those feelings.

Make Masturbation Normal

Many men, whether in or out of relationships, still masturbate, as do many women. But if no one’s discussing it, it can become a taboo topic. And because sex toys are commonly used in masturbation, this provides an opportunity to normalize two sources of needless shame — sex toys and masturbation. No one partner can meet all of our sexual needs, so by making masturbation common, you’ll be reducing half the shame surrounding sex toys for men.

Use Sex Toys With Each Other

Once you see for yourself how your sexual skills can work together with a sex toy, there’s a lot less to fear. Men, if your partner regularly uses sex toys — a vibrator, a dildo, anal toys, whatever — ask if you can try it together. This can make the conversation about playing with your own toys much easier, too. Watching the pleasure your partner gets from the way you touch them AND their sex toy might give you the confidence you need to see sex toys as what they really are — tools of pleasure.

Discuss It

For men who use sex toys, finding places —with certain friends or online — to talk about it helps make what you’re doing “normal.” For those in relationships, bring up the topic as often as possible. Talking about sex toys that you use alone or want to use together makes the topic less taboo and not something that needs to be concealed. Depending on what works best for you, this can be a simple conversation over coffee or something you bring up when you’re both naked, relaxed, and turned on.

Sex Toys for Men are Enhancements Not Replacements

For some men, realizing that their partner uses a sex toy is a big problem because they think it means they’re not satisfying their partner. They view sex toys as a replacement or the enemy. While we can always improve our sexual skills, sex toys don’t simply replace a bad lover. Instead, they enhance forms of pleasure that tongues, lips, hands, and penises cannot provide alone. This is why it’s so important that using sex toys and masturbating within relationships gets discussed more often.

Let Yourself Get Turned On

Okay, so you’re willing to try a sex toy, but you’re worried about what it means and if anyone will find out about it. After you’ve purchased sex toys for men, let yourself play with your new sex toy. In most cases, arousal is strong enough to overcome our fears and inhibitions. Once you know how your new sex toy feels, you may be less worried about what using it “means.”

In a perfect world, no one, of any gender, would feel ashamed of their sexual pleasure or using sex toys. But we don’t live in that world, and too many men think they shouldn’t “need” a sex toy – that it says something about their masculinity if they use a stroker or a prostate massager.

Adult toys are tools to enhance pleasure. They make you or a partner feel good and experience more stimulation. It’s as simple as that. If we get more comfortable talking about sex and pleasure, we can reduce those feelings of shame and everyone can have better sex — alone or with a partner.

If you need help buying sex toys for men and women our expert staff is here to help! We have the best sex toys, fetish toys and any other adult products. Stop by the best adult store Tampa today to see our complete selection of adult toysadult apparel (including a wide variety of lingerie and dancewear), adult gamesadult furniture, and more!

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Hotter Sex: How to Make Planned Sex More Exciting Scheduled sex doesn't have to be stale sex!

When we think about sex, or rather, when we think about good sex, we often think about being spontaneous. This is because being spontaneous means you’re living in the moment. Today we’re discussing how you can have hotter sex, even if it’s been scheduled.

Unfortunately, life doesn’t always make spontaneity easy because you have children, a job and a to-do list a mile long. And sometimes, life leads you to scheduling sex – but that doesn’t mean things have to get old and stale. It simply means you’re adding a little organization to your intimate time. And that can work out in your favor.

Here are five ways to have hotter sex, even if you planned it.

Take your sex somewhere new.

So you’ve scheduled sex, but just because you know when it’s going to happen doesn’t mean you know where it’s going to happen. Let your inner attention-seeker out and try public sex, maybe in a bar bathroom or a park after dark.

But, of course, that’s not the only option – you can always go to a hotel. If that’s not in your budget, check out some new places at home. Try using different rooms or changing the normal routine. Just make sure that any space you choose is inviting. If you’re used to a particular routine, try to let go of some parts of it to make room for new exciting options. 

For hotter sex, turn expectancy into emotional foreplay

Skeptics may say that scheduled sex puts unnecessary pressure on individuals to perform and makes intimacy feel like a chore. Those who schedule sex do so because they like sex, and they want to continue having it. Some even say it carries certain perks spontaneous sex does not.

When you schedule sex, it actually gives you both something to look forward to. It allows you to lengthen the emotional foreplay. Try letting your partner know throughout the day how much you are looking forward to it.

Use date night as a chance to surprise each other.

Just because you have sex on the calendar doesn’t mean you can’t keep your partner guessing. Although you have scheduled time for sex, take turns being setting the mood and initiating it. One partner can light candles or buy a nice smelling massage oil. Surprise each other with something fun and playful.

You can also change up the type of sex you have. Be creative – there’s a whole world waiting to be explored.

Bring in the sex toys.

Trying bringing sex toys into the act for hotter sex. It will help keep things fresh, fully orgasmic. This can also help assure your partner that you haven’t reconciled yourself to stale scheduled sex. And that can be a pretty big turn on.

When certain notions about your sex life get comfortable over time it can be challenging to open your mind to a new way of thinking about it. Some people need to change the narrative they have about sex by opening up to the idea that it can be fresh and exciting.

Slow it down.

No one wants to feel rushed before or during sex. For hotter sex, undress each other, take time exploring each other’s bodies, maybe start a bath, begin with a massage, or just be playful with each other. Take time to disengage from everything else so you can concentrate on each other. It’s important to block out enough time for the fun and the aftercare.

Don’t just throw your clothes back on and go back to life or roll over and fall asleep. Instead, take time to pamper each other because it will help your body remember the good feelings, and get more aroused and turned on the next time.

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