If you want better, stronger and longer-lasting orgasms, an orgasm technique called edging might just be what you need.
What exactly is edging?
Edging is the term used for a specific technique, whether a partner is doing it to you, or you are masturbating. If you’re going solo, it entails you bringing yourself to the point of orgasm and then just stopping.
I know, it sounds difficult because when you get to the point of orgasm it can feel almost impossible not to just let go and finish. But if you can exercise a bit of self-control it will be totally worth it because that orgasm is going to feel more intense and last longer.
A practice referred to as ‘orgasm denial’ sounds similar but actually takes place over a prolonged period of time, but edging involves much less restraint. It takes a remarkably short period of time to become skilled at edging. After a few short sessions, you’ll find that the quality of your orgasm improves significantly.
Here are some tips for edging like a pro.
Be aware of your point of no return.
The point of no return is when arousal turns into orgasm. For the best results, you need to learn to read your body properly so you’ll know when you reach this point in order to cease stimulation.
Most women find that their movements become more mechanical, their breathing sharpens, and all their attention becomes focused on their genitals. At this point, it’s important to stop and let your body rest for a couple of minutes until it returns to its normal state.
You’ll want to be sure to use a lot of lube, so your fingers slide delightfully over your clitoris. Once your sexual momentum has subsided, you can continue. Repeat this practice for as long as you can. About three or four times should do it, but it’s worth stating that the longer you practice the better your result will be.
Using a sex toy for edging isn’t recommended unless you find it takes you a long time to reach your point of no return without one. Some women prefer to use flat small paintbrushes because the bristles offer a unique form of stimulus when repeatedly caressing the clitoris. This feeling tends to work with edging quite well.
But, if you’d like something a little more, a wand vibrator can work really well, because they’re quite powerful, but can be used on a low setting. The large head – which is just for external use – means that your entire labia and vulva is involved and provides a fuller orgasm.
Do the work.
Edging is really great, but like anything meaningful, it takes patience and practice. A lot of people who try it fail at first, and this is because of one simple fact – orgasms are wonderful and it’s hard to decline one when it’s knocking at your door. But if you continue to keep at it, the results will 100% worth it.
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