If you haven’t used a large dildo before, you may have wondered how on earth you’re meant to use them. These dildos are larger than average in girth and length, so they may be a bit intimidating. But they’re popular for a reason: they can be very pleasurable as they create a feeling of “fullness”, both vaginally and anally.
‘There are genuine concerns among some people that using large dildos will stretch them permanently, leaving them “loose.” But your body’s natural elasticity should prevent this from happening, and you will regain the tightness in your muscles within a day or two of use.
Now that’s cleared up, here’s everything you need to know to use a large dildo safely.
Make Sure The Large Dildo Is Clean
Your super-large dildo is going to be exploring your deepest internal regions, and a thorough clean will ensure that your experience is safe, hygienic and healthy. Even if it’s brand new, it’s still worth giving dildo a thorough wash in hot water or use a sex toy cleaner before you use it.
Use a High-Quality Lubricant
Lubricant makes anal and vaginal penetration much safer by reducing the risk of tearing and soreness. With large dildos, it’s safest to use a thick, long-lasting lubricant that won’t disappear within the first few minutes. If you’re planning to use the dildo anally, a thicker, long-lasting lubricant is essential.
If you’re new to the world of big toys, it’s best to start with something smaller initially and then work your way up. You may find large dildos can be difficult to insert at first, so take it slowly and get into positions that allow you to spread out comfortably.
Once you’ve inserted the widest part of the dildo, your body should become more relaxed – this allows you to explore the sensations in your own time. The key rule is: if you start to feel any pain or discomfort, stop. So once you’re ready to explore, go ahead. Experiment with different motions and speeds, just always start off slow and steady and build your way up.
Listen To Your Body
If you pay close attention to what your body is telling you, then you should be able to enjoy every inch of your large dildo with ease and pleasure. The key rule is: if you start to feel any pain or discomfort, stop.
Choosing Your First Large Dildo
If you’re ready to buy your first large dildo but aren’t sure which would be best for you, always start off smaller than you think. It’s worth remembering when you are choosing your first large dildo (for you or your partner) that the body has its limits. Some people may not be able to manage a large dildo, especially vaginally because there’s only so far it can go.
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