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Ouch! #1 Bondage kit

Ouch! #1 Bondage kit is a great choice if you and your beginners/curious.

Included is a mask, cuffs, as well as a flogger.

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Ouch! #2 Bondage kit

Ouch! #2 Bondage kit is a great way to introduce a beginner to bondage.

Included in Bondage kit #2 is Velcro cuffs, feather, mask, as well as dice.

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Ouch! #3 Intro Bondage Kit

Ouch! #3 Intro Bondage Kit is great for the beginner/curious bondage player.

Included in this kit is a masquerade mask, cuffs, as well as paddle.

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Ouch! #4 Bondage Kit

Ouch! #4 Bondage Kit is great for that couple that likes a little bondage and tease.

Included in this kit is cuffs, paddle, mask, ball gag, as well as a feather tickler.

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Sincerely Bling Cuffs

Sincerely Bling Cuffs are super soft cuffs that buckle. The buckle is bedazzled with rhinestones.

These soft cuffs are sure give you comfort, while making your Dom happy to submit you.

Sincerely Bling Cuffs comes with 2 cuffs as well as a detachable chain.

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Bondage Tape

Bondage Tape comes in Black as well as Red.

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Sexology 101

Dom Sub: 6 Sexy Ideas Domination and submission are wide categories, and mean different things to different people.

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm or a better relationship. But how often do we hear how we can better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions like those in a Dom sub relationship?

As a reminder, domination and submission are pretty wide categories, and mean different things to different people. Some of the games on this list might sound really hot; some may feel like they cross the line. Talk through each of these suggestions together and see which ones seem safe and sexy to the two of you.

Of course, don’t forget to discuss boundaries and safe words. You can’t play these types of games unless you and your partner are great communicators who are willing to talk about the ins and outs of sexual safety!

Dom Sub Tampa: Our Suggestions

  1. The Guessing Game. This is an incredibly hot game that can be adjusted for all different levels. The Dom blindfolds the sub or makes them promise to keep their eyes closed. Once the sub can’t see, the Dom collects a series of items to stimulate the sub’s body with (make sure to agree on the specific items beforehand, or at least agree on whether or not pain will be involved). As they’re being touched with each item, the sub has to guess what the item is. A correct guess might elicit a reward, while an incorrect one might earn a “punishment”.
  2. Sensory Deprivation. You can take any of your Dom/sub play to the next level by cutting off one or more of the sub’s senses at a time. The sub will feel even more at the mercy of their Dom, as when one sense is eliminated, the others get heightened. Try blindfolding the sub or have them wear earplugs or headphones, so they can’t hear any of the Dom’s movements.
  3. Clothes Control. An easy Dom/sub game to play is to allow the Dom to pick what the sub wears. You can limit it to a play session, or a specific day, or you can try longer periods of time. The Dom can choose sexy lingerie, accessories, role-playing outfits or demand that the sub be naked all day.
  4. Hidden Signs. It’s one thing for the Dom to exert influence over their sub within the confines of their own home, but another to take it out in public. Have the Dom pick something that the sub has to wear out and about. Some hot possibilities are a collar or harness that can be hidden under clothing. Or try a sex toy, like a pair of Ben-Wa balls.
  5. Surprise Demands. There are a million different ways to play this game, but the basic idea is that the Dom surprises their sub with a specific set of personal requirements that have to be fulfilled by the time the Dom gets home. The Dom can leave a list in a place where the sub will find it, or can send text or an email. The Dom can make it as simple or as elaborate as they please. It can even be set up like a treasure hunt, with specific clues to follow.
  6. Remote Domination. Long-distance lovers can get in on the Dom/sub action too, thanks to all of the Bluetooth-enabled sex toys flooding the market these days. The Dom can instruct the sub to insert the toy and wait until the Dom decides to turn it on. The Dom can tease their sub by only giving them little tastes of vibratory pleasure. The sub can also be given specific instructions not to orgasm, even as the Dom goes to town with the controls.

Ready to get started with a Dom Sub Relationship?

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Always Ask Before Doing These Things During Sex!

Consent is essential in the bedroom; in fact, it’s beyond a non-negotiable. And while a lot of lovers understand that when it comes to consenting to having sex in the first place, there are a lot of things that you need to ask before doing in bed.

That doesn’t mean that between every new position you’d like to explore that you’re going to stop and discuss it. And asking doesn’t always need to be vocal – there can be nonverbal or verbal signs. But in general there should be a need to be a clear affirmative that your partner wants to participate.

So no matter how you choose to ask for and show consent, there needs to be some kind of communication. Sometimes, it’s just going to be eye contact, other times it’s going to be a whispered suggestion, and sometimes it might just be a conversation you have before you even get in the bedroom about what you’re going to try. But for a lot of things, especially if one partner is going to feel particularly vulnerable, the asking has to happen.

Here are some things you should always ask before doing in bed.

Butt Play: Although anal play can be great, not everyone is into it. And it can be painful if done without proper prep, so you need to ask and have a game plan. A good way to ease in is to start by playing with perimeter, rather than darting inside. Check in with eye contact and nonverbal cues or ask. Whatever you do, just don’t go right for it. 

BDSM:   Everyone’s definition of BDSM is different. But if you’re trying it for the first time, you need to talk about it. And even if you’re a pro at it, you need to set the ground rules. On any level novice or more, it’s important to ask for a safe word. Make sure to set the boundaries beforehand.

Anything Very New: If you’ve been having sex for a long time with the same partner, you may feel really comfortable. That’s great, but that also means that your partner may be really surprised if you try anything really far out of your comfort zone. Wanting to try a new position or location is great, but if you’re really changing things up make sure your partner is on board.

Fantasy Play: Not everyone is going to be up for everything, so start by asking about your partner’s fantasies outside of sex rather than jumping in. If you just jump into something it may be disorientating or make them uncomfortable. Be sure to move slowly.

Group Sex: You can’t just invite someone else to the party. Never put someone on the spot when they might be uncomfortable.

Not Using Birth Control: Whether it’s a guy taking off a condom during sex or just assuming that his partner is on “the pill” when she’s not, the choice to not use birth control should be a conversation between the both of you. There are big consequences to not using birth control — pregnancy and STIs to name a few— so if you’re choosing not to use it, you must make sure your partner is informed. 

Introducing Toys: Sex toys can be amazing in the bedroom for both gay and straight couples. But the first time you use them can be difficult, especially if one partner is new to them or feels like using toys implies they’re not enough in the bedroom. Be sure to have a conversation beforehand about how much you enjoy the sex and you’re just looking to mix things up and add to it, rather than not being satisfied. It’ll save some emotional stress and you’ll still get an amazing addition to your sex life.

So have the conversation – ask – and then visit us at Tampa’s premier adult store.

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Sportsheets Bed Restraint

Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System. Black.

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Neck and Wrist Restraint

Neck and Wrist Restraints are a perfect item to spice up your sex life.

Adding light bondage to a sexual routine could be all that’s needed to spice it up.

This neoprene neck and wrist restraint is also a intro to light bondage play for couples.

The cuffs easily attach to the neck as well as the wrist, placing your partner in a position totally at your control.

Enjoy light bondage in the bedroom with this neck and wrist restraint!