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Slave Bondage Set

Slave Bondage Set is a special restraint set for your naughty Sub. This set has a soft adjustable collar, as well as, wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs. Slave Bondage Set will take your play to a new level of Shades.

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Dom Sub: 6 Sexy Ideas Domination and submission are wide categories, and mean different things to different people.

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm or a better relationship. But how often do we hear how we can better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions like those in a Dom sub relationship?

As a reminder, domination and submission are pretty wide categories, and mean different things to different people. Some of the games on this list might sound really hot; some may feel like they cross the line. Talk through each of these suggestions together and see which ones seem safe and sexy to the two of you.

Of course, don’t forget to discuss boundaries and safe words. You can’t play these types of games unless you and your partner are great communicators who are willing to talk about the ins and outs of sexual safety!

Dom Sub Tampa: Our Suggestions

  1. The Guessing Game. This is an incredibly hot game that can be adjusted for all different levels. The Dom blindfolds the sub or makes them promise to keep their eyes closed. Once the sub can’t see, the Dom collects a series of items to stimulate the sub’s body with (make sure to agree on the specific items beforehand, or at least agree on whether or not pain will be involved). As they’re being touched with each item, the sub has to guess what the item is. A correct guess might elicit a reward, while an incorrect one might earn a “punishment”.
  2. Sensory Deprivation. You can take any of your Dom/sub play to the next level by cutting off one or more of the sub’s senses at a time. The sub will feel even more at the mercy of their Dom, as when one sense is eliminated, the others get heightened. Try blindfolding the sub or have them wear earplugs or headphones, so they can’t hear any of the Dom’s movements.
  3. Clothes Control. An easy Dom/sub game to play is to allow the Dom to pick what the sub wears. You can limit it to a play session, or a specific day, or you can try longer periods of time. The Dom can choose sexy lingerie, accessories, role-playing outfits or demand that the sub be naked all day.
  4. Hidden Signs. It’s one thing for the Dom to exert influence over their sub within the confines of their own home, but another to take it out in public. Have the Dom pick something that the sub has to wear out and about. Some hot possibilities are a collar or harness that can be hidden under clothing. Or try a sex toy, like a pair of Ben-Wa balls.
  5. Surprise Demands. There are a million different ways to play this game, but the basic idea is that the Dom surprises their sub with a specific set of personal requirements that have to be fulfilled by the time the Dom gets home. The Dom can leave a list in a place where the sub will find it, or can send text or an email. The Dom can make it as simple or as elaborate as they please. It can even be set up like a treasure hunt, with specific clues to follow.
  6. Remote Domination. Long-distance lovers can get in on the Dom/sub action too, thanks to all of the Bluetooth-enabled sex toys flooding the market these days. The Dom can instruct the sub to insert the toy and wait until the Dom decides to turn it on. The Dom can tease their sub by only giving them little tastes of vibratory pleasure. The sub can also be given specific instructions not to orgasm, even as the Dom goes to town with the controls.

Ready to get started with a Dom Sub Relationship?

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6 Myths About Cock Rings No, They Won't Make Your Penis Fall Off!

Most of the time, sex myths are just that – imaginary tales that have no basis in reality. And that’s the case when it comes to myths about cock rings in Tampa

A constrictive removable ring that’s worn around the base of the penis or scrotum, cock rings help pump blood to the penis and trap it there, thus helping the wearer maintain his erection. For men with erectile dysfunction, cock rings trap blood inside the shaft of the penis, which helps to stay harder longer.

Nonetheless, myths about cock rings are still widespread. Many people think they are just for old men with issues, or they just don’t see the need for it. That’s why we decided to debunk 6 common myths associated with cock rings in Tampa.

Myth 1: Cock rings are only for old guys with ED.

Many men appear to believe that if they don’t have problems getting an erection, they don’t need a cock ring. Even if you don’t have erectile dysfunction, cock rings can make your erection harder and last longer, which is a win-win situation for you and your partner. You might not technically need a cock ring, but it can make you better in bed.

Myth 2: Cock rings are unnecessary and annoying.

There’s a perception that cock rings are extraneous in bed, or that they don’t actually do much to enhance your partner’s pleasure. You might think that strapping on a mini vibrating toy is distracting, but many cock rings come with a vibrator extension that can be up to three inches long. These are great for your female partners, because it means you can provide them with clitoral stimulation during intercourse. What’s more, if you turn the vibrator extender away from her clit so it sits at the top of your scrotum, you too can benefit from the vibration.

Myth 3: Cock rings are just for kinky guys.

It’s true that cock rings are popular in both the BDSM and LGBT communities, which has led to the belief that the toys are just for “kinky, fetish-y guys and gay men, but more Average Joes are buying cock rings than ever before as well. The perception of cock rings is definitely shifting. In fact, we sell more cock rings to straight men than to the gay market. It’s just a sign of the times – people are more open about sex and sex toys and it’s not as taboo as it used to be.

Myth 4: Cock rings will get snagged on your pubic hairs.

If you buy a ring that has a soft silicon coating (or even just purchase a metal ring) it’s unlikely that’ll happen. Most of them are so smooth that they don’t grab the hair, and it’s designed with a flat-edge so it doesn’t roll up. Or you could just keep it trim and smooth down there.

Myth 5: Cock rings can get stuck on your penis.

It’s possible, but it’s unlikely. A cock ring can get stuck if you put on a smaller size when you are flaccid and it gets too tight when you are erect, which is why it’s super important to find a size that works for you. It’s helpful to do a little math first – some cock rings have a size on them, which is usually in diameter. If that sounds like too much work, you can also try an adjustable ring. We recommend adjustable rings for beginners or anyone who has a fear of cock rings.

Myth 6: Cock rings will injure your skin.

While this is highly unlikely, it’s not impossible – it should go without saying, but don’t get all MacGyver with your sex toys. Makeshift cock rings are a guaranteed trip to the ER! Stick to buying legitimate cock rings at reputable sex shops such as ours.

So what’s the takeaway here? If you’re interested in experimenting with cock rings in Tampa, make sure to 1) get the right fit; 2) only use it for 20-30 minutes during sex, and 3) never, ever, ever fall asleep with it on! If you follow those safety tips, then you will enjoy the experience. Our discreet, expert staff is here to help you choose the best one for you!

P.S. For more tips, read our blog, How to Use C-Rings.

 

 

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Always Ask Before Doing These Things During Sex!

Consent is essential in the bedroom; in fact, it’s beyond a non-negotiable. And while a lot of lovers understand that when it comes to consenting to having sex in the first place, there are a lot of things that you need to ask before doing in bed.

That doesn’t mean that between every new position you’d like to explore that you’re going to stop and discuss it. And asking doesn’t always need to be vocal – there can be nonverbal or verbal signs. But in general there should be a need to be a clear affirmative that your partner wants to participate.

So no matter how you choose to ask for and show consent, there needs to be some kind of communication. Sometimes, it’s just going to be eye contact, other times it’s going to be a whispered suggestion, and sometimes it might just be a conversation you have before you even get in the bedroom about what you’re going to try. But for a lot of things, especially if one partner is going to feel particularly vulnerable, the asking has to happen.

Here are some things you should always ask before doing in bed.

Butt Play: Although anal play can be great, not everyone is into it. And it can be painful if done without proper prep, so you need to ask and have a game plan. A good way to ease in is to start by playing with perimeter, rather than darting inside. Check in with eye contact and nonverbal cues or ask. Whatever you do, just don’t go right for it. 

BDSM:   Everyone’s definition of BDSM is different. But if you’re trying it for the first time, you need to talk about it. And even if you’re a pro at it, you need to set the ground rules. On any level novice or more, it’s important to ask for a safe word. Make sure to set the boundaries beforehand.

Anything Very New: If you’ve been having sex for a long time with the same partner, you may feel really comfortable. That’s great, but that also means that your partner may be really surprised if you try anything really far out of your comfort zone. Wanting to try a new position or location is great, but if you’re really changing things up make sure your partner is on board.

Fantasy Play: Not everyone is going to be up for everything, so start by asking about your partner’s fantasies outside of sex rather than jumping in. If you just jump into something it may be disorientating or make them uncomfortable. Be sure to move slowly.

Group Sex: You can’t just invite someone else to the party. Never put someone on the spot when they might be uncomfortable.

Not Using Birth Control: Whether it’s a guy taking off a condom during sex or just assuming that his partner is on “the pill” when she’s not, the choice to not use birth control should be a conversation between the both of you. There are big consequences to not using birth control — pregnancy and STIs to name a few— so if you’re choosing not to use it, you must make sure your partner is informed. 

Introducing Toys: Sex toys can be amazing in the bedroom for both gay and straight couples. But the first time you use them can be difficult, especially if one partner is new to them or feels like using toys implies they’re not enough in the bedroom. Be sure to have a conversation beforehand about how much you enjoy the sex and you’re just looking to mix things up and add to it, rather than not being satisfied. It’ll save some emotional stress and you’ll still get an amazing addition to your sex life.

So have the conversation – ask – and then visit us at Tampa’s premier adult store.

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First Timer’s Cuffs

First Timer’s Cuffs are for that first foray into fetish play and bedroom bondage.

Restrain your partner and tease every inch of their body with your tongue.

Or cover them from head-to-toe with sensual lotions.

Secured with a single metal quick-release clip and strong metal O-rings, First Timer’s Cuffs allow you to safely indulge in bondage play.

The Neoprene and Velcro cuffs are exceptionally strong and hard to break out of once you’re in!

Adjustable in circumference from 5 inches to 16 inches.

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Bondage Role-Play: Our Favorites

Bondage role-play is an exciting way to explore the pleasurable pain of this fetish. Especially for those of you who are just discovering the benefits of BDSM, experiencing it through role-play is a great way to get a feel for it one step at a time.   After all, during role-play, we can use our imagination to be anyone at all, which makes it easier to step outside our comfort zones.

Following are some of our favorite scenarios.

  1. Nurse and Patient. The sexy fantasy of a seductive nurse is a story as old as time. With the closeness to medical instruments and a legitimate need to put your hands all over the patient’s body, this scenario is begging to be used in bondage role-play. Just imagine, if your patient gets a little out of hand, you might just have to strap him or her to the table to check the vitals. Now that is one naughty bedside manner!
  1. Student and Teacher. Act out sexy bondage role-play in the classroom when you’re dressed as the class troublemaker. If you’ve been disrupting class by speaking out of turn, there’s only one way to deal with that – the teacher will have to chastise you with a paddle or a ruler. You may even be forced to sit in the corner and do as you’re told, and who knows what kind of punishment could be in store for you?
  1. Sexy French Maid. Fine tune that French accent, dress up in your sexy maid uniform and get ready to service your partner like never before. “Ooh-la-la” and “merci” are just two expressions he or she will be saying when it becomes clear what you have in store for as a sultry French maid! This role-play is more than just a wild dream come true for your partner. You can be as demanding or as giving as you wish, depending on what kind of mood you want to set.
  1. The Watcher. One of our favorite bondage role-play scenarios includes one partner doing all the work, while the other partner is made to just watch. Restrain the watching partner to the bed, and then begin to play by going about your day normally – dressed in nothing but a thong. The key is to completely ignore the watching partner. Don’t even look at them. When you finally, allow yourselves to actually touch each other…let’s just say it’s probably going to be explosive!
  1. Catsuit Passion. Who wouldn’t want to channel the ultra sleek sexiness of Catwoman? Make it bondage role-play by wearing a sexy leather and lace catsuit, and bring along a whip to ensure you can put your partner right into line at a moment’s notice! Is a whip not quite enough for you? A sturdy suede flogger, riding crop, or chain ball tickler all match the sexy outfit as much as the situation.
  1. Fifty Shades of Grey. If you’re totally new to bondage or role-play, you at least know about Fifty Shades of Grey. Make it even more exciting to explore this fetish by taking on the roles of Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele. He may not always play by the BDSM rules, but you and your partner should, which means never forsaking the power of the safe word.

Slipping on a new personality in the bedroom allows us to let go of anxious self-consciousness a little bit more easily, which makes scouting new sexual territory through bondage role-play seem much more doable. Spice it up even more with just the right erotic lingerie or adult sex toys for your bondage role-play needs.