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Naughty Holiday Sex Tips Because who doesn't like holiday sex?

It’s the holiday season, and Santa coming down your chimney takes on a whole different meaning. Check out our holiday sex tips that are sure to put you on the naughty list!

Although it has a wholesome reputation, it turns out that Christmas is actually kind of sexy. Surveys found that nearly half of those questioned planned to have holiday sex on Christmas Day. Studies also show that the months August and September have the most births each year, which corresponds perfectly with findings of Americans being rather frisky during the holidays.

If you’re looking for some sexy, yet seasonal inspiration for holiday sex, here are some ideas to get you going. Cue up “Santa Baby” and hurry down the chimney tonight.

Get On The Naughty List

Indulge in some light BDSM — one of you has been naughty and has to be punished.

Lick Their Candy Cane (Or Peppermint)

Indulge in oral holiday sex but make it seasonal.

Christmas Shoes

For those with a foot fetish.

Wrap Them Up

Tie your partner up, using velvet ribbon if you want to get fancy.

A Christmas Toy

Buy your partner a new sex toy and let them open it early.

Baby It’s Cold

This song is now about temperature play. Grab an ice cube and have fun.

Kiss Them Underneath The Mistletoe

Put mistletoe around the house and go wild. You don’t have to stop at just kissing, either, enjoy some good old holiday sex.

Kissing Santa Claus

Put on a Santa hat and act out the song.

Toy Box

Lavish your partner’s “box” with attention.

Santa’s Lap

Take the opportunity for some sitting-down sex. Either one of you sits and the other kneels between their legs to go down on them, or one sits and the other rides their penis or strap-on.

Deck The Halls

Whether nipple or clit clamps add some sexy decor to you or your partner’s body.

Christmas Candles

Find a massage candle and try out an erotic massage.

Wonderful Christmastime

Act out your partner’s fantasy for a holiday they’ll never forget.

Santa Claus Is Coming

Try for multiple orgasms – even if you don’t get there, you’ll have fun trying.

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3 Reasons You Should Buy Your Partner A Sex Toy For Christmas The Christmas gift-giving season is in full swing!

The Christmas gift-giving season is in full swing, and all manner of electronics are being promoted as the perfect presents. But one electric toy is conspicuously absent from most end-of-year gift guides: the sex toy. Following are some reasons why you should buy your partner a sex toy for Christmas this year.

Although a vibrator may not be on your partner’s Christmas wish list, you should buy them one. You’re probably running through a list of objections in your head: My partner would be offended. They’ll prefer the sex toy to me. But every one of your objections is misguided.

Your partner will not be offended if you buy him or her a sex toy for Christmas.

Your partner will most likely not be offended, as sex toys are so common that half of Americans have used them. And if they are offended that you want to improve your sex life with a vibrator, then you have a problem that’s way bigger than mere offense at the sight of a buzzing contraption.

Your partner won’t prefer a sex toy over you.

After all, sex toys can do things the human body cannot. But just because they can give your partner the multiple orgasms you’ve never been able to provide, it doesn’t mean they will abandon sex with you. Research shows that over two thirds of men are not intimidated by vibrators. In fact, women may like their partners even more because they are the ones who gave them the gift of endless sexual pleasure by purchasing a vibrator.

Just because you satisfy each other doesn’t mean you shouldn’t get a sex toy for Christmas.

While you may not need a sex toy in the way that you don’t need an LCD TV or a Cuisinart, a sex toy can enhance your sex life in the same way that watching your favorite shows on a high-quality screen makes the experience more enjoyable than watching it on your smartphone. If you can enhance your sex life with a consumer product—more pleasure, more orgasms, more fun—why wouldn’t you? Is sex somehow less valuable than other forms of entertainment?

A vibrator, dildo, or male masturbator can help you and your partner bridge the fact that women have fewer orgasms during intercourse than men; vibrators allow women to have orgasms faster and more frequently. It can make sex with the same partner more novel, which in turn makes it more fun. Even if your partner only uses the toy for masturbation, it can help them discover what they enjoy sexually and share that knowledge with you.

But perhaps the most important thing about using a sex toy with a partner is this: It makes you talk to each other about your sexual likes and dislikes. Few couples discuss sex enough, so if a vibrator can help you communicate your sexual desires, then it is well worth the price of buying a sex toy for Christmas.

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Sex Toys for Men: The Perfect Christmas Gift Fa la la la la!

There are a lot of sex toys for men, but too many guys feel nervous about buying one for themselves. This is either due to stigma or because they think they shouldn’t “need” one. But sexual pleasure comes in many forms — including toys made just for him. This holiday season, consider buying the man in your life his first (or his next) sex toy for Christmas.

Why Sex Toys for Men Make the Perfect Gift!

With Sex Toys for Men, You Can Play Together

Buying him a sex toy can really be a gift for both of you. Cock rings, kinky gear, and couples’ toys can all involve both of you. If you’re looking for a way to let him know you want to get naked and try new things, gift wrapping a new sex toy is an easy way to do it. Once he’s ripped off the wrapping paper, he can rip open the box, and you can get busy in the bedroom or wherever.

His Pleasure is Important, Too

Buying your guy a sex toy as a gift lets him know that you think his sexual pleasure is important, too. And that it’s okay if he uses something beyond his hand to get himself off. You’ve given him a new way to explore and made it clear you’re comfortable with his masturbation habits.

Enjoy More Orgasms With Sex Toys for Men

If he can play with a sex toy in bed, so can you — and vice versa. This was true before you buy him a sexy gift, but it’s made clear once he opens his new toy. You can pull out your favorite toy when he does, and enjoy them together, side by side. Mutual masturbation is just one way you can both enjoy sex toys together. Maybe he wears a cock ring while your vibrator pressed against your clit. Maybe he tries prostate massage while you use a butt plug

Either way, twice the sex toys in bed often means twice the orgasms. And more toys mean more opportunities for pleasure. Orgasms are never guaranteed with any sex toy, but they definitely make them easier to achieve.

Sex Toys for Men are Fun

No other reason is required. Sex toys feel good – they help you get off. You and your partner get more pleasure with a sex toy, either because of the extra stimulation or because you’re willing to explore new sensations and sexual play. We call them “toys” for a reason and playing with each other takes on a whole new meaning once your partner gets a new sex toy to try. He might spend time alone getting off, but he might also take that energy, excitement, and desire and have more and better sex with you, too. Either way, everyone benefits.

Conclusion

If the man in your life seems too shy to tell you what sex toy he’d like to try, think about what kind of stimulation gets him off. Those who are willing to explore new sensations may be interested in butt plugs, prostate massagers, or strap-ons. But as long as he’s into trying new things, consider giving him his own sex toy this holiday season. Once he opens it up, then the real fun can begin for both of you. Fa la la la la!

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5 Sexy Christmas Gifts That Are Perfect For Both You and Your Partner

There’s no better way to spice up your holiday traditions than by trying new ones. Have you and your partner ventured into something other than the typical P-in-V sex yet? If not, we have some ideas for you; in fact, we have 5 sexy Christmas gifts that will benefit both of you.

Strap-On

Everyone—male or female, gay or straight—can enjoy strap-on sex. Comfortable to wear and ultra-sexy, a harness allows for hands-free dildo fun.

If comfort is your main concern, rest assured that today’s harnesses are designed with ultimate comfort in mind. Many of our harnesses feature velvety soft inner linings and multiple adjustable straps, so your strap-on can truly be an extension of you. Just be sure to review minimum and maximum sizing for the best possible fit.

We-Vibe Sync Couples Vibrator

Sync is one of the best sexy Christmas gifts you can buy! It’s designed to be enjoyed with a partner during sex. She gets powerful stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot and together, you both share the vibe. Touch, tease and turn each other on from anywhere. Download the free We-Connect app and play together, even when you’re apart.

Our Weekend in Bed Kit Contains Many Sexy Christmas Gifts

For couples interested in getting into some consensual bondage play, this kit has all of the things you need to get started. Whether you spend the holidays at home or in another romantic location, you and your lover can always spend it in bed with these sexy Christmas gifts! Make that time together more exciting and passionate with our Weekend in Bed Game Kit. Includes: 2 Adult Card Games, Satin Carry Bag, Paddle, Feather, Blindfold, Flogger, and Candle.

Sex Sling

A sex sling helps angle your hips to target your G-spot during sex. Place over your door for an instant sex sling. Includes a padded seat that pivots for access at any angle. Foot straps and hand grips provide ultimate leverage.

Liberator Large Triangle Sex Cushion

This, my friends, is a sex cushion. It’s portable, washable, and can be stored beneath the bed or in your closet. It’s amazing for propping up your body while experimenting with different positions for maximum impact. You’ll be amazed at what a difference lifting up your booty makes.

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This holiday season, you and your partner can give the gift of lasting intimacy by gifting one (or more) of these sexy Christmas gifts to each other. Don’t underestimate the importance of investing in your sex life, either – the chemical bonds you build up with your partner will last much longer than the holidays and I can’t think of anything more merry and bright.

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Why You Should Be Very Careful About Buying Sex Toys From Big Online Retailers Make Sure You Get the Pleasure You Want!

There are many online retailers where you can shop when buying sex toys. Today, we’re using Amazon as an example.

Amazon has more than a million brands, hundreds of millions of products and more than five million marketplace sellers. There is no data available regarding how many of those products are sex toys, but the site’s “sexual wellness” is full of vibrators, dildos, and other sex toys.

The problem is that even if you shop on Amazon after doing some research you might end up with a fake. This has to do with the way Amazon commingles listings from different sellers on the site – and the way it fulfills them.

The worst part is, these lower priced counterfeit goods can easily out-compete authentic, well-made sex toys on Amazon and at other retailers. To add to the confusion, Amazon is rife with fake reviews that further confuse consumers about what they’re getting.

Why So Many People Turn to Amazon When Buying Sex Toys

The appeal of shopping for sex toys on Amazon is twofold. One, as we’ve mentioned, is that there appear to be some good prices on toys that are in demand. The other is that Amazon is so mainstream that it may make people feel more comfortable about buying sex toys.

Buying a vibrator can be adventurous enough, so having a private retail experience you are comfortable with can make it easier to buy something that feels uncomfortable to buy.

How All This Cheap Stuff Hurts the Sex Toy Industry and Consumers

If you don’t know much about the sex toy industry, you may not know how much it’s changed over the past 10 years or so. Buying sex toys is becoming more mainstream and, as a result, consumers are no longer ashamed to demand high-quality, body-safe toys for their money.

The products being released today have more research behind them than ever. Companies are fine-tuning motors and shapes, but they are also elevating the entire experience for consumers who are buying sex toys.  They’re doing this by hiring sex educators, providing sex education and getting really involved at the consumer level.

Plus, consumers are getting smarter. We now know that some materials aren’t safe enough to put into our orifices. We know that sexual pleasure – including any devices used to achieve it – isn’t weird or shameful, it’s a part of being human. And we know that many companies out there have been stepping up and putting in the hard work to make beautiful, safe, well-designed pleasure products for people.

Don’t You Owe It To Yourself?

If you’re in the market, you owe it to yourself to get a product that’s made by a manufacturer who actually cares about your pleasure and your health, and one that will deliver the goods for years to come. They don’t come cheap, but they are worth your time and money.

After all, when you are buying sex toys you are essentially buying into the idea that you deserve pleasure. Don’t you want to make sure you actually get it?

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Why You Just Have to Buy Your BFF a Sex Toy for Christmas Who Know You Better Than Your Bestie?

Sure, lots of women own a sex toy but they’re not something you’d normally think of buying for a friend. Today we’re discussing why they make the perfect gift and why you should consider buying your bestie a sex toy for Christmas, even if he or she has a partner.

You Know Just About Everything About Each Other

Best friends share secrets, special moments and a history together and often know more about each other than even their partners know. Men are often surprised, and even shocked, when they realize that women really do tell each other literally everything.

You Share Everything

There’s nothing best friends won’t talk about so there’s no reason why they should be shy or coy about what gives them intimate pleasure – and they usually aren’t! If you have a close friend with whom you share everything, a sex toy could be the perfect gift for her, whether or not she currently has a romantic partner in her life.

Buying a Sex Toy for Christmas Really Shows You Care

We all love our best friends and want them to feel good, so a sex toy is a genuinely thoughtful gift that has the potential to make a real positive difference in your friend’s life.

You Have Similar Tastes

The great thing about women their best friend a sex toy for Christmas is that they already know each other so well they don’t have to guess what they might like. This will make it easier for you to buy your friend the right toy. You have similar tastes, so if you find a particular product appealing, your best friend is likely to enjoy it too.  Is she a fan of modern, sleek technology, or does she prefer all that is cute and feminine? Does she have a raunchy side or does she tend to be discreet or even a little coy? (Read: How to Choose a Vibrator)

It Can Be Fun to Give a Sex Toy for Christmas!

Part of the fun of giving your friend a vibrator, dildo, or other sex toys this Christmas will be the look on her face and the conversation and laughs you will share. So it might be fun to arrange a night in together with a nice meal and a bottle of wine so that you can exchange gifts and enjoy each other’s company, and some giggles.

Whatever the case, there is a huge range of sex toys available in today’s market, which is increasingly predicated around female tastes, and you will be able to find something for her.

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Does Using Sex Toys Really Benefit Your Mental Health? There are a surprisingly good number of psychological benefits associated with incorporating sex toys into relationships.

For some men, using sex toys may seem emasculating, while women generally have an easier time with using them. There are a surprisingly good number of psychological benefits associated with incorporating sex toys into relationships and self-pleasure. (Watch: How to Introduce Sex toys Into the Bedroom.)

Some men feel pressure about performing in the bedroom, and it’s this pressure that can keep them from experimenting with sex toys, either alone or with their partner.

In a world where sex toys and the innovation behind them is truly mind-blowing, they’re definitely something worth trying. Here are five mental health benefits of using sex toys in the bedroom.

Using Sex Toys Leads To More Sexual Satisfaction

The more you explore your body and experiment with toys, the more likely you are to know how to get yourself off, whether solo or with a partner. Americans report a 90 percent satisfaction level when they sleep with men who use sex toys. As for those men who shy away from toys and don’t use them, that satisfaction level is 76 percent.

 

Using Sex Toys Boosts Body Confidence

Those who masturbate weekly are more likely to feel positively about their looks and body than those who don’t. Sex toys allow you to experiment with different sensations, stimulation areas and simultaneous pleasure points in a safe manner, giving you the gift of knowing what makes you feel good. Then, you can repeat this with yourself or know exactly what to communicate to your partner.

Using Them Can Help You Sleep Better

Sex and masturbation can help with insomnia and restlessness. And because the activity releases endorphins, masturbation can help people feel calm and less stressed. Both men and women report better sleep after incorporating masturbation into their routine.

Using Sex Toys Helps Relationships Last Longer

Trying new sexual endeavors alleviates boredom, lessens the likelihood of cheating, and improves overall communication between partners. When we open ourselves up to new things, it prompts communication, which is essential to relationship satisfaction and overall health of the partnership.

Sex Toys Help Sexual Dysfunction

Sexual dysfunction is real, and both men and women can suffer from it. This where using sex toys can lend a helping hand. If both men and women can learn to make themselves climax through the use of toys while masturbating, it will give them more confidence in reaching orgasm with a partner, because their mind will be at ease.

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Anal Fingering: The Top 3 Ground Rules It's The Logical First Step Before Trying Anal Sex

If you haven’t heard of anal fingering, it’s exactly what it sounds like – inserting one or more fingers in someone’s anus. And if you’re contemplating anal sex, this would be the logical first step. Read: How to Have Anal Sex That Doesn’t Hurt.

Even if you don’t want to progress to using a penis or sex toy for anal sex, fingering can be erotic for everyone. The human anus contains numerous nerve endings around the opening and inside that can feel especially delightful when they’re touched. But there are some ground rules you need to consider before giving it a try.

Rule #1: Talk To Your Partner Before Engaging In Anal Fingering

Imagine a man sitting around a table, talking to his buddies about a sexual adventure he’d had the night before. He looks around awkwardly, leans across the table and whispers, “Dude, she stuck her finger in my butt.” The major issue in this scenario is that the man who was fingered clearly had no idea it was coming.

That should never happen in real life because consent is important and also because surprise fingering can make a person’s body shut down. The surprise can actually make them stiffen up. And you can’t really finger someone’s anus without some prep work, which leads us to rule #2:

Rule #2: Use Lube When Anal Fingering

Because buttholes don’t self-lubricate like vaginas do, they need help getting wet. If you attempt to finger someone whose anus is completely dry, you can actually tear it. But even if you don’t tear anything, dry anal can be painful.

Find a lube you like and use it. Silicone lube tends to last longer than water-based, so that might be the best option. But, if you already have a water-based lube you like go ahead and use it. Just keep it close by so you can add more when things begin to dry up.

Rule #3: Consider What Could Be Painful During Anal Fingering

If you have long fingernails, consider either cutting them or using a finger condom to protect your partner’s insides. Regardless of which option you choose, you’ll want to douse your fingers in the lube all the way to the base, and then start slowly.

Read: How to Choose a Lubricant for Both Pleasure and Safety.

You also don’t want to just stick your finger in – it can be helpful if whoever is being fingered takes a moment to take some deep, slow breaths. Having a relaxed body means having a relaxed anus, which will make the whole experience more pleasurable for everyone involved.

There are a variety of techniques you can try once your fingers are inside the anus. Gently press your fingertip along the inner wall of the anus to delight those feel-good nerves. Or, you can put your finger in up to the base and then gently massage around your partner’s rectum. The only rule here is to proceed slowly and gently at first.

Eventually, you and your partner will be able to explore more about the pleasure of anal fingering. Happy adventures!

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The Hottest Sex Trends of the Year

Sex trends promise to offer some exciting technological advances for your sex life. Who said tech can’t be sexy? From better options for male sex toys to more realistic-looking sex dolls, here’s what you can expect from sex trends in 2018.

Sex Trends: Toys for Men, Remote Controls and Porn

Better Sex Toys for MenWhen it comes to sex toys, the choices on the market are overpoweringly targeted at women, and penises are usually left out. But sex trends 2018 indicate that that’s slowly starting to change. Sex toy manufacturer Tenga is planning to launch a sleek, non-disposable masturbation sleeve featuring vibration.

Remote-Controlled Technology for Couples in Long-Distance Relationships:  We-Vibe allows you to control your partner’s pleasure remotely via its We-Connect app. If you’re in a long-distance relationship, or simply out of town on a business trip, you can control the vibrator from afar. Tease her by playing with various speeds, or set vibrations to the beat of your favorite song. Expect more sex toy companies to jump on board with such technology in 2018.

The sex tech company also makes great partner toys, such as the Sync, which your partner can wear during penetrative sex. It’s shaped like a “C” and goes inside the vagina.  It not only stimulates the G-spot, but also wraps externally to hit the clitoris as well. Not only does it feel good for her, but it turns her vagina into a delightful vibrating orifice.  You both get to enjoy the sensations.  Read our blog: How to Use a Remote Controlled Couples Vibrator.)

The Rise of Homemade Porn: There’s nothing wrong with masturbating to your favorite porn movie, but sometimes, you just want to see normal couples getting it on. Websites now feature real-life couples that upload videos of themselves having sex for you to enjoy. As taboos about sex disappear, expect to see more amateur couples uploading their own content. We can no longer go on behaving around sex the way we always have, committing it to the shadows, refusing to talk about it openly and honestly.

More Sex Trends: Butt Play, Sex Machines and More!

Better Butt Stuff: Anal sex is undergoing something of a rebirth.  Not only are more couples experimenting with anal, but as Men’s Health previously reported, more men are willing to explore anal play by buying male G-spot toys and butt plugs. And sex toy companies are meeting this increased demand by creating anal sex toys. More adventurous souls will be able to explore pegging – a term used to describe a woman wearing a strap-on and penetrating a man. (Read our blog:  How to Have Anal Sex That Doesn’t Hurt.)

Super-Realistic Sex Dolls: Yes, sex robots are right around the corner.  Companies are producing sex dolls that look so realistic they almost feel creepy. The company says it’s aiming to integrate AI technology into their products by the end of this year.  It will be like if Alexa was combined with a sex doll.

High-Tech Sex Machines: Yes, we know that you’re a sex machine, but are you or your partner brave enough to actually try one? We’re all familiar with vibrating saddles, which have traditionally been targeted at female buyers, but in 2018, that’ll change. Sex trends 2018 indicate that there will be toys for men who enjoy prostate stimulation. Just don’t forget the lube

More Reasonably-Priced Sex Toys: The one problem with high-end sex toys? They can be pretty expensive. Sex trends 2018 will see the rise of more affordable pleasure products. So fear not if you can’t afford a real doll – there’s plenty of affordable pleasure to look forward to in the New Year

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