Sexology 101

Sex Toys: Not Just for Solo Fun!

Often thought of as a solo activity, the use of sex toys by couples can enhance their sexual relationship. Using a sex toy is a great way to spice up your sexual relationship while boosting intimacy. There are multiple benefits of using sex toys, including keeping your Kegel muscles toned and your libido amped up.

Why should you use a sex toy?

The benefits of using a sex toy are vast. Having great sex can promote health and wellbeing by elevating your mood and making you feel good physically. Using a sex toy can spice up a fading sex life and bring some fun into your life. A sex toy not only makes you feel great but it improves your circulation and the release of the “feel good factors” during orgasm.

Sex toys can also increase the tone and elasticity of the vaginal walls and stimulate the release of vaginal secretions that can decline as we get older, as a result of bad health or side effects of medication.

Using a sex toy can bring great pleasure to both partners even if full intercourse is not possible. Many couples are unable to have sex due to physical or emotional problems and using a sex toy may help.

Will it ruin my normal sex life?

When used with your partner, sex toys provide couples with the opportunity to fully express themselves sexually and enhance their sexual pleasure, especially when using them to stimulate their partner.

Couples can use sex toys to boost their sexual satisfaction and add variety into their sexual relationship, which may have become boring. Having sex with the same person for many years can become a bit stale but a sex toy can help to make sexual intercourse more fun, pleasurable and exciting again. Becoming aroused with the help of a sex toy is no different than any other way and may increase your pleasure.

I want to but I’m too embarrassed.

Since the famous rabbit vibrator was mentioned on “Sex and the City” it has become acceptable to own sex toys. According to recent statistics, nearly 60% of women own a sex toy and 75% of those who do are married. You may be surprised at how many of your friends own a toy, as it’s normally the quiet ones!

My partner isn’t on board.

If your partner isn’t keen on you using a sex toy, use it on your own or try to encourage them that using a sex toy is not replacing them but improving what you already share. It can increase trust and closeness between you and your partner.

I don’t want to scare my partner away.

Some men feel that they won’t match up to what a sex toy can do and can therefore be replaced by a vibrator. This couldn’t be more wrong. Using sex toys together enhances sexual pleasure for both people involved.

There is no single sex toy that is right for everyone. We all have different sexual needs and experimenting with a variety of products will enable you to find the perfect toys for you. There are many sex toys available for both sexes that provide enormous pleasure. If you have a bad experience with one toy, don’t give up, just try something else. You may find that once you have persuaded your partner to try a sex toy, they will be hooked and will want to try more.

Now stop worrying that using a sex toy can ruin your sex life, because it will only enhance your pleasure and promote good sexual health.

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