If you’re in a relationship, it’s no doubt that sexual compatibility is very important, not to mention that you constantly have to keep reinventing the wheel in the bedroom to keep things exciting. So, ladies, how can you up your sex game and keep things spicy at the same time?
Up Your Sex Game With Proper Grooming
A big bush is often not a pleasant sight. Shave or at least trim and clean your nether regions. Eat fruits such as pineapples to give you a good taste. Also, make sure that you smell normal – a vagina is not supposed to smell like a rose garden but if you put your finger in there and it smells like fish that’s an indicator of a bacterial infection or an STD so go get a checkup.
Sex It Up
Invest in some sexy lingerie that you can wear on nights when you and your man are getting down and dirty. Think of a matching lace lingerie set. Talk to him, massage him or her with oil, set the mood with candles and sexy music. (Read: How to Set the Mood for Sensual Bedroom Sex.)
Be Self-Confident To Up Your Sex Game
Sometimes we start to think about our tummies, cellulite and what not. But trust me, your partner is not bothered about how you look, so just make yourself comfortable. If you’re relaxed, you will get into the moment, and boost your chances of reaching the big O. Confidence is sexy.
Know And Address Your Partner’s Needs
Different people like different things, so don’t have sex with a manual…customize it.
Keep Communication Open
You will only both enjoy having sex if you both talk about what you like and don’t like, so give feedback and encourage your partner to do the same.
Read The Language.
Be able to read the signs so that you do less of the things not being appreciated and more of those that are.
Make Foreplay Fabulous
Ask what your partner likes and actually enjoy giving it to him or her.
Surprise your partner one day before work, jump into the shower with him, tell him to shut up and give it to you fast and hard. Never let your partner leave the house horny or hungry.
Be Adventurous to Up Your Sex Game
Switch up styles, come on top and change the rhythm. You don’t want to bore each other with the same old missionary style.
If You Have Low Libido Don’t Stress
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