Think You Might Be Addicted to Your Vibrator? If you love your sex toys TOO much will your relationship suffer?

In the wake of sexual liberation, this question is commonplace among women. Can your favorite vibrator take over your clitoris so overpoweringly that the need for partnered sex just flies out the door like a one-night stand? Can your clitoris get so used to the blissful wonderment of a sex toy that anything else feels blah in comparison?

If you love your sex toys TOO much will your relationship suffer?

It’s actually a falsehood rooted in female sexual shame and the fragile male ego we’ve been taught to cater to. No, you won’t get addicted to your vibrator and ruin your sex life. Here’s how it works.

Sex toys help you figure out your body.

Sex toys are not a replacement for penises or tongues or hands or any other part of the human body. They are toys that are designed for sexual pleasure and can actually improve your sex life. They are the tools you use to figure out what excites you. A sex toy is designed, manufactured and produced to make you orgasm. Two out of three women require clitoral stimulation in order to have an orgasm; we rarely achieve that kind of pleasure from penetration alone. A sex toy can help you figure out what you need to make yourself orgasm during sex.

Your vibrator gets you more into intercourse and oral sex.

Want to have more sex and actually enjoy it? Embrace the vibrator. Studies have shown that women who engage in masturbation actually enjoy partnered sex on a larger scale and experience more orgasms overall. When you’re primed up from an orgasm or vibratory stimulation, your nerve endings are ripe and ready for action. Regular orgasms make having them easier. Trust us, setting time apart for dates with your vibrator is not going to stop you from enjoying partner sex.

Overstimulation can happen, but it’s not permanent.

It can happen with all types of sexual stimulation, not just vibration. The point is, the body bounces back, and quickly. You cannot become addicted to vibration. Yes, it feels great for many women, but it isn’t the end-all-be-all for pleasure.

Try something new.

If you feel like your go-to vibe is becoming necessary for your orgasmic pleasure, take a break and try something new. If one kind of stimulation gets boring, change it up with a new sex toy. Give yourself some old-fashioned hand jobs for a few days. Try coming at your clitoris from a different angle. The body is capable of experiencing pleasure in a multitude of ways, so don’t limit yourself.

Vibrators can come into the bedroom.

Not only are vibrators non-addictive, they make excellent additions to partnered sexual play. There is nothing to fear with a sex toy – they are not going to replace your partner or damage your sex life.

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