Female orgasms are a beautiful and magical thing – but not every woman is having them, and that’s just not right. Whether it’s because they’ve never felt confident enough to express what works for them, or they’ve never taken the time to figure out what their own bodies need, too many women are faking orgasms. This is not good for women, but it’s also not good for their partners who may think they’ve been blowing her mind when they’re really not.
In the spirit of promoting female orgasms for every woman out there, we’ve put together a little guide on female orgasms. From the adult sex toys that can help you get there, we have the scoop on all things orgasmic.
- Never underestimate the importance of lube. It’s a fact: moisture makes female orgasms easier to achieve. If your own body doesn’t produce enough, and this can definitely be the case no matter how turned on you are, some lubricant will do the trick. Find the kind that works best for you, and keep a bottle in your nightstand drawer.
- Don’t forget to breathe. Take a tip from the world of yoga and remember to breathe when you’re about to climax. Experts suggest your pleasure will be deeper and more intense if you thoroughly inhale and exhale during sex.
- Remember your Kegels. Doing Kegels (squeezing and releasing the muscle of the pelvic floor) is an incredibly simple exercise any woman can do at any time in order to gain better control of her orgasms. The more you practice, the better you will get. Squeeze during sex for intensified female orgasms. Kegel exercisers and Ben Wa balls are another way to work these muscles.
- Focus on your whole body. An orgasm is a full-body experience, so take another tip from those who practice yoga and focus on how you feel everywhere. When you feel the energy of being with your partner coursing all throughout you, you begin to open yourself up to the possibility of greater intensity. Let yourself go, and the climax will surely follow.
The clitoris is typically the key to female orgasms, and this type of orgasm is sure to send most women flying sky high to the moon. But don’t worry if it doesn’t for you! Every woman is different, every body is different, and what works for some people isn’t always guaranteed to work for others.
Get in touch with your body, express your desires to your partner, and orgasms are sure to come. That being said, the chance of orgasm increases if you don’t head straight to the clitoris. Touch and caress all around the area, and absolutely do not forego oral. To make things a little more interesting, you can bring in adult sex toys.
Practice with G-spot vibrators and vaginal orgasms will come quickly. First things first: you must locate the spongy area inside the vagina, along the front wall. Once you’re become familiar with the G-spot, direct your partner to aim his thrusts there. Deeper and more targeted thrusting will better stimulate the G-spot, making the likelihood of female orgasms far higher.
So…how much did you really know about female orgasms?