The prostate is one of the most highly-underrated pleasure points in the male body, but it remains one of the most highly-stigmatized topics. Why? Because engaging the prostate in sex requires a man to allow himself to be anally penetrated, and that can stir up feelings. But could prostate massage be a game changer in your bedroom?
Also referred to as the male G-spot, the prostate gland has been shown to increase orgasm by a significant margin when stimulated either alone, with penis play, or during intercourse. It’s time we all embraced this magical wonder and learned more about it. Here is everything you need to know about prostate massage.
Where is the prostate?
The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located a few inches inside the anus. Its main function is to create prostate fluid, which is one of the two main ingredients in semen.
If you insert one or two fingers into the anus and reach up toward your partner’s belly button, you should be able to feel the prostate. If you’re unsure, check in with them, when you hit it, they will know.
And prostate massage also has health benefits. When you release prostate fluid, you help remove stagnant material which could lead to the need for a prosthesis.
What is prostate massage?
You can perform prostate massage it in a number of ways. The easiest is simply to apply pressure to it. Insert two well-lubed fingers, into your partner’s bottom and make a come-hither motion the same way you would with G-spot stimulation.
You can do this while you stroke your partner’s penis, or they stroke it themselves – either will intensify every feeling. Your partner will feel a fullness, an igniting of the nerves around the anal opening, as well as pressure on the prostate. The orgasm that follows might just be the best he’s ever had.
Try using some sex toys!
Sex toys are definitely not just for women, and there are some excellent toys designed for prostate massage. When you use a toy, most of the time it will just stay in place, allowing you to do other sex things while your partner’s prostate is naturally stimulated.
Grease up the toy well with your favorite water- or oil-based lube, and gently insert it. Have your partner insert it himself the first few times so he can get used to the sensation. His anus should be relaxed, and he should be breathing deep when putting something inside his butt.
With butt plugs and prostate massagers of all kinds, the second ring of sphincter holds it in place. But a fair warning: Never, ever put something up your butt or a partner’s butt that doesn’t have a flared base. Your butt hole is very strong and without something keeping the toy in place, it can get lost. Therefore, only use toys designed for the butt.
While prostate massage might sound a bit out of the box and unconventional, it could really change the game of your sex life! If you want to know more about the pleasures of the prostate and want help choosing the best sex toys, fetish toys or any other adult products, stop by the best adult store Tampa today to see our complete selection of adult toys, adult apparel (including a wide variety of lingerie and dancewear), adult games, adult furniture, and more!