Hot weather can make you feel sticky, sweaty, and irritable, making sex the last thing on your mind. But it doesn’t make sense to avoid sex the minute the weather gets hot – you’re wearing summer outfits, spending days out in the Tampa sun and that’s bound to make you feel ready for some great summer sex.
So here’s how to give yourself splendid sex that’s hot in a good way.
Chill Your Sex Toys For Great Summer Sex
Glass and ceramic sex toys can be warmed up or cooled down for added sensation. When there’s a heatwave, you’ll want to cool them down. Put them in the fridge (not the freezer) or dip them in a glass of ice water before using them. But make sure your toys are waterproof before you do that.
Use Ice For Great Summer Sex
When you’re giving oral, keep a cube of ice in your mouth. Hold it in your mouth while licking and sucking so your partner has occasional contact with the chill. Or use your tongue to run the melting ice along their sensitive spots. (Read: Oral Sex Tips)
Put Your Sheets In The Fridge
People often put their sheets in the fridge for a cooling effect. As sexy as they are, satin and silk sheets should be put aside for now and always have cotton sheets to keep you from sweating.
Experiment With Some New Positions
It’s summer and sometimes it’s just too hot for niceties. Switch up positions to give the parts of your bodies that aren’t your genitals some space. Missionary can feel a bit suffocating in the heat, while doggy style will do the trick. For foreplay, stick to giving and receiving oral rather than caresses all over the body.
Now’s A Good Time For Great Summer Sex in the Shower
When the weather heated, taking your sex under a waterfall of cold water is absolutely dreamy. If you’re struggling to do penetration standing up, stick to oral with one of you on your knees.
Choose Cooling Lube
There are loads of cooling lubes packed with menthol on the market, that increase sensitivity and make you feel a little more chilled. You can rub them anywhere you like, so you can feel cool and tingly all over.
Be Cautious Of Outdoor Sex
Pool sex sounds sensual, but water actually washes away the vagina’s natural lubricants, making sex more difficult. Beach sex means sand everywhere, which can leave both you and your partner with soreness and irritation. If you’re lucky enough to have your own garden, go wild, but be mindful of the bugs roaming about.
Stay Safe During Great Summer Sex
If you’re doing it right, sex can be a strenuous activity, and when it’s hot outside you’re risking heatstroke, dehydration, and exhaustion. Keep an eye on how you’re feeling temperature-wise, sip water, and if you start to feel dizzy, tired, or nauseous, take a break from both the sun and the sex until you feel better.
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