If you still have a gift list of people with question marks by their names, trying to figure out what to get can make for a stressful time. But luckily, when it comes to your partner, it doesn’t have to be. Sure, you should get them something that shows how much you care about them, but it’s also the perfect opportunity to treat them to some fun in the bedroom.
If there’s been a fantasy they’ve been wanting to try – and it’s something you’re comfortable with too – this is the time to do it. Or maybe it’s the perfect time for an unexpected quickie or to really, really take your time. Whatever you feel like has been lacking, whatever you think you and your partner might really need, it’s what the holidays are all about.
So take a minute and think about what you and your partner could really use and what would be a fun and useful for your sex life. If you need some ideas, here are some sex acts – compliments of the best adult store Tampa – that are perfect to give your partner this holiday season, because ’tis the season to give and to receive!
69: The holidays are all about the spirit of sharing, so this is the ultimate sex act for giving AND taking. It’s not everyone’s favorite, but it’s fun to try once in a while. It’s normally easier with the smaller person on top, but you can mix it up as long as you both feel comfortable and secure. Then enjoy the sex act that’s truly in the holiday spirit.
A Super Sexy Buildup: Maybe it’s some sexy new lingerie or a bath and a massage – just really take the time to make the sex act start early and turn it into one long sexy event. If you’re feeling brave, some sexy texts throughout the day can create a buildup to make it a mind-blowing night. Or just light some candles and make sure you really get into the foreplay.
A Buzzy Upgrade: Take your favorite position and enhance it with a sex toy that you haven’t tried before. If you’re new to sex toys, maybe try a vibrating cock ring – they’re not very intimidating and you can both benefit. It’s amazing how much a position can change with just a little adjustment.
A Scintillating New Position: Whip out the kama sutra and find a position that you haven’t tried before. It can be a really fun, bonding experience finding a new position together. Just make sure to keep the lube handy!
A Spontaneous Quickie: Sneak into a secluded area, a changing room in a store, even your living room and just really go for it. Not only is it a fun holiday present, it can give your sex life a nice shock if you’re in a rut.
A Guest Encounter: If you feel comfortable with it and you’ve discussed it with your partner, it might be a good time to finally have a threesome. This is one where it’s really important to set some groundwork first, but if you’re both feeling experimental, the benefit can be huge.
An Early Morning Session: Short on time? Wake them up nicely and treat them to a blowjob or some cunnilingus before work.
In this hectic holiday season, make sure you’re taking some time to touch base and treat your partner. The best part? All of these gifts to your partner are fun for you too, so make sure the gifts keep on giving!
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