Make the Missionary Position More Exciting with These 8 Tips

If there’s a stand-by sex position you can swear by, it has to be the missionary position. You know, simple run of the mill, one on top one on bottom, love making.

The position is most desired between couples because it’s comfortable, has great penetration and of course you’re face-face, which takes the intimacy factor up a notch. There is really no reason for it to get boring, unless of course, you’re having sex every day and that’s the position of your choice.

But if you swear by the missionary position and it’s getting robotic and monotonous, you can always spice up your sex life by introducing a variety of things you can do that work like a charm.

Here are 8 strategies to boost the pleasure quotient while you’re in the missionary position.

Toys, Bondage, Sex Furniture and CAT During the Missionary Position

Bring Extras: You can always use some vibration to up the pleasure when you’re inside her. Use gadgets that bring about excess pleasure while making love and you’ll never find a dull moment. You can use a vibration ring around your penis or even a cock ring, which restricts the flow of blood, from the erect penis, to build a stronger erection. (Read: How to Use C-Rings.)

Tie Her Up: Bondage is always an exciting way to experiment in bed and if you love missionary you can always try bondage along with it. Tie her hands to the bedpost with handcuffs, scarves or even a rope and then explore the fun you can have! Yes, it can get a bit rough, but do we always wish for vanilla?

Pillow’s Aren’t Just for Talking: Placing a pillow or a cushion underneath her butt, while you’re inside her, deepens the penetration, giving both the partners full and intense orgasms. It props her back up which makes contacting a lot easier. Use a hard pillow, which can hold her posture up or purchase some sex furniture to make the sensation even better.

Try the Coital Alignment Technique (CAT): The technique involves gaining more clitoral friction when in the missionary position. All you have to do is shift a little forward so that your penis penetrates more at a vertical angle. The eventual goal is to rub the clitoris with the base of your penis and pelvic bone as you thrust downwards. Yes, the position is a little awkward at first but once you try it, you’ll never stop doing it!

Get Handsy, Different Places, Rhythm and Eye Contact to During the Missionary Position

Use Your Hands: You probably can’t give your partner the clitoral stimulation she requires when you’re in this position because of the reach (unless you position yourself differently) but you can use your hands to do whatever else you feel like, since they’re free! Ask her what she enjoys the most and do just that.

Different Places Is Aces: Don’t restrict missionary to just your bed. You can move around a little bit and try it in different places. The missionary position becomes boring when it’s repeatedly done on the bed, but a newer surrounding can make it more exciting. 

The Rhythm Is Going to Get You: Your partner can make it a bit interesting for you too. She doesn’t have to lie still while you’re inside her. Ask her to bend her knees and plant her feet on the bed and move her hips along with yours. She can even try moving her hips in a circular motion or back and forth in an undulating wave-like pattern and get into each other’s rhythm.

Eye to Eye: One great thing about the missionary is looking into your lover’s eyes while doing it, since you’re face to face. This helps increase intimacy and makes love-making way more pleasurable. Don’t lose eye contact and trust me you’ll explode with the intensity you face, while in the position.

The Bottom Line

Remember, adding pleasure to your sex life should be fun at the end of the day and not stressful. Try these 8 techniques, if you like the missionary position and you’ll definitely rock her world!

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