Labor Day weekend is essentially a going-away party for summer. And just like any goodbye, there are some seriously mixed emotions involved. Some will welcome it with open arms, excited for the coming days of sweaters, scarves, and pumpkin spice lattes, others will mourn the loss of beach days and barbecues. Whichever group you fall into, one thing’s for certain – it’s time to have some very hot end-of-summer sex.
It’s a little tradition we have as a country to cram all the summer experiences we can’t leave behind into one action-packed three-day weekend. So in addition to the barbecues, weekend getaways, hotel stays – and much-needed staycations – here are a few sexual experiences to help you make the most of the last weekend of summer.
- Get Busy Outside: Why waste your weekend indoors when you have fall and winter for that? Outdoor sex is actually a common fantasy, and the change of locale (for some, paired with the fear of being caught) can add a sexy adrenaline rush. Plus, getting busy outdoors forces you to break from your routine and adapt to your new surroundings. Take advantage of the warm weather while we still have it and go camping, take a hike, or find a secluded beach and hook up in some fresh air.
- Park the Car: Road trips are a staple of summer fun and remind us of being young and carefree. Sex acts of any kind in a moving vehicle are an absolute no-no, but if you’re cruising with your partner and a sexy thought crosses your mind, pull over. When you stop somewhere private, slowly let your hand creep up your partner’s leg, or place his hand on your leg. Plant a few kisses on his neck and he’ll definitely get the idea. Once the teasing gets too much, kill the engine, recline the passenger seat, and, you know the rest.
- Take a Dip: While oceans, lakes, and swimming pools may seem like the perfect place to sneak in a quickie, fully submerged sex puts you at risk for all kinds of infections, not to mention that the water can wash away your natural lubrication. For a risk-free but equally sexy water experience, head to your shower with your favorite waterproof toys. It’s the perfect spot because the limited space requires you to get creative with your sex positions, there’s no cleanup, and cool water actually heats up your sex drive by stimulating circulation. Finish it off with a relaxing massage!
- Foreplay All Day: Part of the appeal of a long weekend is that it gives you plenty of time to extend your pleasure and get the most out of every sexual act. You know those delicious moments leading up to sex? Imagine if you could prolong all that sexual tension for as much time as you want. Remove one sense, like sight for example, to heighten all the others and put you into sensual overdrive. Bring a blindfold into the mix to really turn up the sizzle. Take turns touching each other until you’re both so hot, there’s nothing left to do but get it on.
- Cross at Least One Thing Off Your Sexual Bucket List: Whether it’s a change of locale, a new sex position, or a kinky role-play scenario, take advantage of this long weekend to mix things up and explore uncharted territory in your sex life. If there’s something you have always wanted to try, now is your chance to suggest something sexier than dinner and a movie.
Go forth and have the sexiest Labor Day ever!