In the post-sexual revolution world, you’d think a group of young, sexually active women wouldn’t be embarassed at the mention of using sex toys. Didn’t cultural phenomena like Sex and the City and 50 Shades of Grey shed the awkwardness and prepare us for this?
Sure, plenty of women have already tried sex toys (44 percent of women between the ages of 18 and 60, to be precise) but what about the silent, intrigued majority who don’t know where to start?
The first rule of shopping for sex toys in Tampa is to loosen up and enjoy the ride.
If tawdry, in-your-face fetish stores scare you off, rest easy that you can find a sex toy shop in Tampa such as ours that feels more like a high-end fashion boutique.
Many of our customers are looking for something to share with their partner such as the best-selling We-Vibe 4, a two-pronged vibrating sex toy that’s supposed to help with simultaneous orgasms. You can even sync it with your smart phone!
Obviously, there’s quite a bit to sift through, so here’s what you need to know.
If you’re curious about sex toys in Tampa, you need to get over your insecurities and fears.
Each person’s insecurities and fears about sex toys are unique. For some women, the idea that “it’s not natural” bogs them down when it comes to sex toys, only a living, breathing partner is supposed to make you orgasm. Others are embarrassed or worried that a high-powered sex toy will make them desensitized to the human touch, rendering them only able to achieve orgasm with a toy. Men, on the other hand, tend to be threatened: Don’t I satisfy you? Am I not a good enough lover that we need something else?
Men, don’t worry – a sex toy can’t cuddle or kiss or give compliments, but it can add orgasmic intensity for a woman by stimulating key erogenous zones that a man doesn’t always find or doesn’t always know exist, such as the U-spot, the G-spot or the the P-spot.
At the best adult store in Tampa, we find that vibrator beginners tend to get caught up in the mechanics of toys and whether they’ll get something wrong, so you might want to start with a small clitoral vibrator without any bells and whistles that can be easily stashed away.
The only way you will know what you like is if you start and experiment with your sex toys.
Simple sex toys, like blindfolds, can empower women and actually distract them from any hang-ups they may have with their bodies. It’s even better for the ladies to blindfold their men, because that gives women more confidence. Once they blindfold their lover, they can do things and say things and they become 10 times bolder than they’ve ever been. It’s very liberating!
It’s better than going on a bad date, and it’s safer than a one-night stand.
Once you’ve decided you’re willing to try sex toys in Tampa a go, let your turn-ons get you started.
Want to test the waters? Start with massage candles. Into the 50 Shades craze? Try a blindfold (or a ben wa ball if you’re adventurous). But a lot of women want to go straight to vibrators — perhaps the infamous “rabbit” episode of “Sex and the City” piqued their interest? Sex toys for men? Why not try a c-ring?
At some point, most women discover that they are more likely to orgasm from clitoral stimulation than from vaginal, so products with vibration focused on that specific areas have become very popular.
Next, think about how strong you want your vibrations. If it takes a while for you to get off with your hand or you need a shower massager, go for more powerful vibrators. You should also look for quality construction and body-safe materials, like silicone.
Then, throw any rational thinking aside and pick the one that tickles that sexy part of your imagination,” she said.
Going into an adult store in Tampa, rather than shopping online, is the best way to go.
Our expert female sales team can be invaluable in the quest for a sex toy, whether you’re alone or with a partner. It can be done online, but going to an adult store can be an adventure and something outside what couples typically do. In fact, shopping together makes for a great date night.
Couples often start out by experimenting with anything from vibrators to cock rings to basic S&M kits. Buying something really innovative that opens up conversation is probably better than just buying a dildo, which can be intimidating for the man and for the woman.
But whatever you decide to buy, our biggest piece of advice about buying sex toys in Tampa is to have fun, relax and don’t judge yourself. It may be a bit awkward, but there’s absolutely no reason to be ashamed.