How To Use A Remote Controlled Couples Vibrator

Picture you’re grinding on the dance floor as your partner watches you from across the room. Or maybe you’re sitting across from each other in a dark, cozy bistro, or sitting hand in hand on the subway.

That’s when you feel it…a deep, pleasurable vibration. Your partner is watching and smiling because you’re wearing a remote-controlled vibrator. And you’re partner’s holding the remote.

Sexy, right? It can be – under the right circumstances.

Here’s how to incorporate the fantasy of remote control into your love life in a way that keeps all the sexy without any embarrassing side effects.

  1. Pick your pleasure. There are all types of different remote controlled sex toys out there. So the first step is deciding what kind you want. Do you want the naughty factor of getting a buzz in public? Or do you want to use it in private to connect with a long-distance lover?
  2. Consider sound. Whether you’re in your living room or on the dance floor, having a vibrator go off in your private parts isn’t just indiscreet – it’s distracting and a little disturbing. Purchase a remote controlled vibrator that’ll provide vibration that rocks your world without leaving anyone else in the room the wiser. Discreet is sexy – especially in public.
  3. Range matters. Speaking of quality, another thing you tend to get for your money is range. If your partner has to point the controls within a foot or two of you, you’re going to end up feeling like a broken television set.
  4. Have some rules of play. Letting someone else take control of your pleasure can be hot as hell – if you set some ground rules. Tell your partner how you would like them to use the controls. What excites you? What boundaries do you want to push and which ones do you want to leave right where they are?
  5. Go for quality. There’s no shortage of cheap, flimsy things that vibrate and dare to call themselves sex toys. But it’s a high-quality, well-designed sex toy that’ll really give you a night to remember. High-quality vibrators are equipped with high-quality motors that deliver more of the right kind of power than cheap novelties. Quality doesn’t always mean super high cost, though. Shop around and read reviews to a get a sense of what’s available in your price range.  (We recommend the We-Vibe Sync!)
  6. Fly solo first. Nothing ruins a perfectly good orgasm like fumbling with unfamiliar controls or suddenly losing power at the most crucial moment. New toys often take a little practice. Before bringing your brand new friend out on the town, try it out at home. Play, fantasize and learn at your leisure. That way if you do decide to take it public, you and your partner will be experts at getting right down to business and pure, uninterrupted pleasure.
  7. Be discreet. Flirting with a little indiscretion can be fun, but try to be conscious of your surroundings and the other people you’re sharing them with like that nice, old couple sitting at the table next to you! They probably don’t want to know about the shenanigans going on under your tablecloth. You and your partner have consented to play in public. The public at large has not consented to join in the fun. Plus, keeping your pleasure under wraps is half the fun!

Remote controlled vibrators are all about putting your pleasure in someone else’s hands. Letting someone else hold those controls can be really sexy, but before you run out the door with a vibrator tucked into your pants, talk to your partner about the rules of play. You may not be in agreement about what’s sexy or about whether the frozen foods aisle is the right place to play.

Need more information?  Stop by the best adult store in Tampa and speak with a member of our expert team.  They’ll make your decision easy!

 

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