How to Use a Wand Vibrator

It’s no secret that a wand vibrator is the foundation of any noteworthy sex toy collection. They deliver powerful, amazing orgasms, so today we’re discussing how to use them for maximum benefit.

The wand is the clit-whisperer. No matter who you are or what you like, almost every woman will agree that a wand vibrator is one of the best things in the world.

Did you know that the love you have for your wand can be a part of partner sex and not just your favorite masturbation accomplice? Believe it or not, the two things are not mutually exclusive.

Why Use A Wand Vibrator During Sex?

Bringing sex toys into the bedroom is finally becoming a new normal for many people. Nearly every woman requires stimulation of the external clitoris to experience orgasm.

Sex toys are a medium to this necessary sexual touching, and vibrators are designed to help you orgasm. Any partner who is comfortable with themselves will not be intimidated by a sex toy, but rather open to experimentation. After all, who doesn’t want their partner to come?

If you’re in the early stages of your sex toy adventures, you’ll probably want to start with something small and non-threatening. Finger vibrators and bullets are excellent for beginners, but eventually, you’ll probably be ready to graduate to something bigger and more powerful. That’s where wand vibrators come in.

We love our wands because of their power-packed charge and long handles that make masturbation easy. You can hold the handle at chest-height and reach the clitoris without moving a muscle.

The head has a lot of girth so it provides all-over clitoral stimulation without having to do much in the way of maneuvering. For the brave amongst you, these same positive attributes can be utilized during partner play. You may have cornered the wand as your solo-only toy, but its big head and long body make orgasms during intercourse even easier.

If you want to ease your partner into it, start by having them watch you use it on yourself. (This can be a huge turn-on!) Seeing how you make yourself orgasm could be just the push your partner needs.

How to Use a Wand Vibrator: The Best Positions

Starting out with wand play means finding the right positions that are both comfortable and orgasmic for you. For now, stick to these three basic positions to get placement in order. Don’t worry if it feels awkward at first – all new sex things can feel strange in the beginning.

Missionary: Your wand can seriously spice up this go-to position. When you’re in missionary, slip the wand between you and your partner. If they are able to stay propped up on their arms, it will help make some extra room for the wand. Hold the wand like you would while masturbating on your back.

Open-Legged Spoon: Lie on your back and spread your legs, bent at the knee. Have your partner enter you from below, perpendicular to your body. Drape your knees over their side. You can align bodies as you would in a classic spoon for more intimacy. Grab your wand and rest it on the clitoris. This is an ideal lazy-girl sex position. You have total access to your clitoris, while your partner penetrates you.

Doggy Style: For those of you who enjoy masturbating on all-fours with a wand, this will be your bread and butter. Lie on your stomach, sticking two or three pillows or a Liberator cushion under your hips. Prop your wand against the pillows so you can angle your vulva against the top. Have your partner enter you with either their penis, fingers or dildo from behind. A wand is amazing for doggy style because you get to ride it while your partner is riding you.

Queening: This position is great for everyone but works especially well for same-sex couples. Lean your back against a throne of pillows like a queen. Grab the wand and hold it against your glans clitoris while your partner uses their tongue on the rest of your vulva. The vaginal opening is full of nerve endings and is amazing for exploration.

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