How to Give Him the Best Blowjob Ever

First things first…get to know the penis.

This is the anatomy class they don’t teach in high school because it’s all about the pleasure. Here is what you need to know about the penis.

  • Glans (head): This is the most sensitive part of the penis because it’s full of nerve endings. The foreskin acts the same way a clitoral hood does, so if the person is circumcised, the glans could thicken and become less sensitive. This area is good for licking and sucking.
  • Frenulum: This is the “face” of the penis – the area that connects the head to the shaft. This is not an area you want to apply pressure to, but it does respond well to licking and sucking.
  • Shaft: This part of the penis is responsive to pressure so you can – and should – grip this.
  • Testicles: The balls are tougher than you think, as long as you don’t vacuum suck one of them into your mouth. The hanging sack of skin that many aren’t sure what to do with responds to pressure, light licking or gentle sucking.
  • Perineum: Often referred as the “taint,” this is an internal area of the penis. It is soft when the penis is flaccid, but firms up when the penis is erect because it is made of erectile tissue. You can stroke it like the shaft.
  • Anus: While not a part of the penis, the sphincter is ripe with nerve endings. Prostate play is not only good for the man’s health because it drains fluid from the prostate, but it will take the best blowjob to the next level. You can stimulate the prostate through the perineum or by inserting the digits on your passive hand into the rectum and either rocking back and forth or gently pulling your finger(s) in and out.

Tools for the Best Blowjob

Here are some tips to help your blowjob game blow up!

  • Hydrate: Don’t just stay hydrated all day; keep a glass of water by the bed.
  • Lube it up: A lube like Sliquid is vegan and gluten-free, and does not contain chemicals like those found in KY. You put things in your mouth that you want to eat, so taking your partner’s natural flavor says, “your body is delicious to me.” That doesn’t mean forego barrier protection – use purified latex condoms or vegan condoms. Oh, and have the conversation about where he will cum before playtime begins.
  • Wash it up: “If you want your d-ck sucked, you’ve got to wash it! Even if your anus isn’t involved, your partner’s nose is close. Also, a little pubic hair grooming is appreciated.
  • Get rid of funky spunk: Certain foods can affect the taste and smell of seminal fluid, so avoid caffeine, alcohol and nicotine and add healthy treats to your diet, especially an hour or so before sexual activity. Think sweet and tart – fruits like pineapples, cranberries, and strawberries. Avoid foods like asparagus, broccoli, spicy food and red meat.

His d-ck is clean, his balls are washed, he has the cleanest anus possible and he’s trimmed his pubes. Everything is ready for the best blowjob ever!

Since a blowjob is more than just mouth, keep your hands moisturized and watch the sides of your nails. Lube and gloves are a great idea to keep the moment as smooth as possible.

Watch your teeth. Some of us have sharp ones, and capping your lips around your teeth creates a blanket-layer around the sharp teeth. It allows you to take him in without biting.

Avoid sticky lip-glosses or all-day wear lipsticks. They don’t glide.

Use God’s lubricant – spit and mucus. If you plan to deep throat but are concerned with your gag reflex, practice on your own first with a toothbrush.

If you’re engaging in some anal play and he loses his erection, don’t just think you’re doing a bad job and stop. The body is simply redirecting its focus for a moment.

Break out your BJ toolkit. As you build your toolbox, consider stretchy texturized sleeves, a vibrating cock ring, a handheld vibrator (great for the perineum), and a vibrator like the We-Vibe Sync, which allows for climax if held at the sensitive coronal ridge.

Edging can be fun. A blowjob isn’t just suck-suck-suck and done. It can be a delightful experience for all involved and bringing someone to the edge of climax and holding back can heighten the final experience.

So there you have it – go forth and give someone the best blowjob ever!

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