What do you think of when you think of massage? Slow music, gentle hands, comfort and relaxation? Sounds good and feels good, but…imagine if you are the one doing the massage, touching the silky skin and erotic curves of a woman’s body. Sexy, isn’t it?
Today we’re going to explain how to give a sensual massage that will connect you to her body and let you explore it. Even if you only give her a 10-minute rubdown, you will be rewarded with a relaxed and happy woman in your arms (or in your bed).
Before you can learn how to give a sensual massage, you have to learn the ingredients. Learning, and putting them together in the right way, will have a big effect on her pleasure and getting the outcome you want.
Setting the mood: Setting the mood is one of the most important steps in a sensual massage. The massage is meant to be sensual! You need her to feel as comfortable as possible. First, dim the lights and light a few candles. This provides a nice, romantic ambiance. Next, prepare your place for a massage. Find a good firm surface for her to lie down (your bed, a beach towel, on the floor or even on a table.
Music: Music is a vital part of setting the right mood. Take a moment to think about what your goal is – either to make her relaxed and ready for sex or to put her to sleep. If a romantic massage is an appetizer before the main course, then choose something sexy like soul music. If it’s for relaxation then go for soft and slow blues, or even nature sounds such as running water or the sounds of the rain forest.
Oil: Oil is your main ingredient and the list of available oils you can use is long. Experiment with a few and find what you like. Massaging with sensuous touches releases hormones that boost the sex drive tremendously. The smooth texture of the oil – be it sweet almond oil or sensual oils like spearmint – honey massage oils and creams give a great sense of pampering and are a turn-on at the same time.
Here’s how you can massage her body and keep her begging for more.
- To begin, have her lie face down on a towel and dim the lights. Then squeeze some essential oil onto your palms and rub your palms together to warm the oil. Almond oil is a good option as it allows your hand to slide smoothly.
- Start with the shoulders and then move on to the base of the neck and down to the arms. You can also gently squeeze her skin between your thumb and fingers. Then return your hands to her neck and slowly work your way down to her back making smooth circular motions. Massage with the heels of your hands at the side of her spine.
- Then move on to her buttocks. The buttocks are a highly erotic area, and your very sensuous massage can be a perfect romantic foreplay. Just place your palms on her mounds and massage in circular motions. Slowly increase the pressure while you create a roll of skin with your thumb and push it up.
- She will be delighted when you stroke her thighs and calves and caress them with your fingers. For a leg massage, have her lie on her back and gently massage her kneecaps.
- If you start with massaging the chest, it can make her feel ready for some lovemaking so keep it for the last. Start stroking slowly and then build up more pressure. Rub her breasts while bringing them together and finish off with the nipples.
There you have it…go forth and make her beg!